I met a girl the other night at a bar, and ended up K closing a few hours later. I was trying to act very laid back, and have a not-give-a-fuck attitude the whole time but I'm afraid I might of overdone it.

Because she basically pushed me up against a wall in a dark corner on the street, she stared me down until I kissed her. I wasn't even expecting this or thinking about kissing her in the middle of the street.

After we made out, she said that I had no balls for waiting so long. Should I take this as a shit test, or did I already fuck-up, I kind of froze when she said that, and just said something like "whatever"

So, is it possible to play it too cool that the girl gets uninterested, obviously she was somewhat interested if she wanted to kiss me and forced herself on me. How do I deal if she says I have no balls? If it is a shit test, should I start kissing her again or would I be jumping through her hoops?

It really threw me off when she said that, not that it hurt my ego, but I wasn't sure what it meant, or what to do.

oh, i thought the title was literal... uh, no advice here

don't act so laid back that it seems you are ignoring her or somthing like that
it didn't sound like a shit test to me
i mean, you hav to show some interest in your target...

what happened later?

She is definately interested. Did she say you had no balls in a playful way or in an angy and annoyed way? It sounds like she was saying that to give you the hint she wanted you to take it further(I could be wrong, I wasnt there). Either way, it sounds like you are gonna have to be a little more daring with this girl. I wish half the women I met would be like this. Good luck!

I'm pretty sure she was saying it in a playful manner.

From these replies, I think it was clear I was being too laid back and I should of manned up instead of trying to act 'too cool' even after she was attracted. Even though it was fun to have a girl force herself on me like that, I don't think every girl will necessarily act like that.

Thanks for the help.

If you wanted to get the last laugh, or take it as a neg, you could've said 'What makes you think I wanted to kiss so soon? Im not easy.'

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iv gotten this comment b4
so....

i said "i wanted to make it u beg for it... like ur doing right now"

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