This has come up way to many times that it has in a way become a sticking point.

Long story short Im back at school full time and cannot afford to live on my own even with room mates.

I have 3 years of school left basically so I will be staying with my mom till I have my bachelor. So there is no possibility of moving out unless I quit school and work full time. I simple don't make enough at my dead end job with the little hours i work.


With that said how do I handle girls that wants to go back to my place?
How do I handle the question like who do you live with? Without ofcourse sounding like a completely looser cuz I know Im not I just need to get my bearings straight.

So far f close for me is her place or car or somewhere random.


I can't be 100% sure but I'm positive this increase the percentage of flake. Not much but enough to care

You need a place and can't afford one, so why not check with your good friends if you can use theirs when they don't need it? (not the best thing to do, but you're out of options there)
When girls ask who do you live with, you could profit of the question and tell a good story with some some DHV spikes added to it. Or go for something like: I live with the seven dwarves, and they're more fun than your room mate i bet!
That's what i was able to think of, but you should get your own responses ready man! And i'm sure you could find a couple for every question.

You live in the Bay Area? I assume that means you most likely live in a house with your parents as opposed to an apartment, unless you're in the city.

If that's the case, all you need to worry about when it comes to bringing girls back to your parents' home is frame control. If you live in a small, thin-walled apartment with your parents, bringing a girl back would certainly be pushing it.

Thanks I'll work on that. How would you handle the conversation.


The 7 Dwarves is pretty good but eventually I'll have to tell the truth.

Do you think I can dhv going back to school? I figured I'll say something like.

Ya I'm actually back living with my parents right now, I decided to seek higher education and it's the only way I can do it.

I figured with this it shows that:
1. It's a choice I made.
2. It's because I seek to improve myself.

But I need o figure out a way to word it so that the fact that it's because I want to get higher education overpowers everything else.

Or is this not a good way to approach this?

Man don't give it that much importance, you could make it seem like it's temporary and then move on to another subject in a smooth way without looking like you're trying to avoid talking about it!

Use my 7 dwarves neg, and then when you're at the comfort building stage and if she asks again (which isn't always the case!) just go like: I'm back to living at my parents' for now, when we graduate me and my friends will be going to sharing this mansion in [cool place, but don't over compliment it] and it's gonna be awesome blaa blaa blaa...
Her: Ah ma gaad that's so excitingg!
You: Now tell me, what have you got going besides your looks?

Let her do the talking! You just lead the conversation.
And finally, work on improving the way your room looks at least... make it your own exceptional place.

Make it happen!
HeartsOverriden

man im 21 and im ur EXACT same situation. usually i tell them a story about my mom finding my condoms w/e. then they ask "u live with ur parents?"

THEN i automatically respond with an I DONT CARE /NO BIGGIE attiude with this..
"yea i transferredback home, my dad had a heart surgery ( which actually did happened) so i came back in order to help out, so anyways that story i was telling u about so on and so on..."

say it like that like it dont mattter man.

GOOD LUCK i hope it works 4 ya

Cool thanks for the help guys I will try it this way the next time this comes up.