For some reason, I only seem to be able to open girls in areas that aren't too busy. In fact, >75% of my day game approaches in my home town are on one long street that runs off the high street, purely because there are so many less people there.

Anyone else with this problem?

Any ideas why this might happen?

Any solutions?

I'm working on AA myself, but a few things to consider:

1. Your never going to see these people again

2. It's normal and natural to approach attractive women and most people know this or wish they could do the same

I had this problem for a while. I would be in a supermarket or city centre, see a hot girl and crumble at the though of all the eyes looking at me as I approached and opened.

Heres how I killed that fear off for good:

When your in a crowded place (day game only) just remember these things:

1. When your walking down a busy street or in a supermarket, how many times do you take notice of other people talking to each other?...even when you do, for all you know they could be friends or work colleagues so what do you do, you walk on in your automated world.....the same applys to you and your day sets. No-one notices and even if they do, they give it like 2 seconds thought and move on in their automated worlds.

2. If you see a girl on her own walking down the street or in supermarket etc, go and open her but with this thought in the back of your mind 'I am going to talk to this girl and if she blows me out, so what im one step closer to getting this right'.

3. Walk around like you own the place, not in an insecure or fake way but like you actually OWN the place, its yours, you could have a dump in the middle of the street or aisle as you OWN it and no-one can say anything to you.

4. By opening in busier places, it actually works in your favour, as all the distraction and background noise makes the woman feel more safe and secure around you (shes in a busy public area)

5. Remember that the aeroplane takes off against the wind, not with it...remember you are learning a new skill that 95% of the male population dont know or are too afraid to try so by continuing to do it and in even more busier scenarios you a developing your inner courage and confidence which will serve help you through the sets you open (even if you fail in the beginning).

6. After opening a few sets, take a breather, get a coffe or something and take 10 minutes to relax and reflect. Once you start breaking your day game AA, you will realise that you will not want to take a break, this is how you know you have beaten the daygame AA.

Soon you will see other men and women looking at you in the corner of your eye. You will feel the men being envious of your new confidence and you will feel the women appreciating your alpha frame.

It all helps you continue to improve.

Hope this helps


John

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Thanks for the tips guys, I didn't post earlier because I wasn't sure I agreed that these problems applied to me specifically.

After scoring another number at the bus stop yesterday, I'm beginning to think that my mistake is that with people around me I'm easily distracted and I need focus. I'll report back in the future if I make further developments.