I just don't understand day game. To me it just feels real awkward to walk up to someone during the day and try to game them. I also have the problem of never being able to think of something to say. I don't like routines because, at least in my experience, it doesn't come out naturally. This has made it virtually impossible for me to game women lately because that means the only time I have to sarge is when I go out to a bar or club and since I have been swamped with work lately, I haven't had time to do this. Any tips for a noob on how to make myself feel more comfortable with day game?

I don't really have a social circle of strong wingmen, so the bar / club scene is harder for me and the hotter girls will typically have their defenses up.

The key to day game is talking to everyone. Say, when I'm at Starbucks and I chat up the guy / not cute girl behind the counter "gees, you guys sure crank up the AC in here".... then when I decide to talk to the hot girl behind me while we are waiting for our drinks it comes off as natural and friendly and not "hitting" on her.

Or I'll go to the mall and find a hot salesgirl and be like "I'm going to this charity event tonight and need a tie to match my dates dress". Most girls love to get dressed up and want to know the charity, where is it being held (high end hotel), etc. It also conveys higher value. Most salesgirls would much rather talk to an interesting guy for 20 minutes than go back to folding shirts. Then I'll close with "hey, me and a friend are running the Race for the Cure 5K (tons of charity races out there) next weekend, you should run it with us. Text me your email and I'll send you the info"

Day game, daygame.

If you're a club-style player, let me explain why day game is awesome in ''Mystery'' styled words.

When you have the fuckin' balls to approach a girl on the street, without you or her being drunk, it's a huge-ass DHV. Also, you have two options (if you go direct) : Either you close the set, or you get rejected after only a few seconds. No waste of time! Really! Who else than a fucking alpha-male would come up to a stranger and start chatting her up? In my opinion, direct stuff works a lot. If you want some good videos, try these links:

www.daygame.com

www.sashapua.com (Awesome guy, very funny)

Simple Pickup Youtube channel (They're really funny)

Oh, and I'd like to finish this post with my personal opinion. Take it or leave it, but I think that day game is WAAAY more mentally healthier than hitting on drunk chicks who are just looking for a fuck.

Thanks my friends!

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If you make 3 approaches a day and within a week, probably less, you won't feel awkward at all about it. People are friendly and social creatures and just about anyone will talk to you if you have interesting stuff to say. And people are so much more real in day game, there is no one to impress or any reason to act like someone your not. You can actually have a normal pleasant conversation and practice natural game a lot easier. Even if open about the weather thats fine, the majority of people don't even make an attempt to do that. If you run out of stuff to say thats good, it means your pushing your limits, so just keep talking and try to come up with something. You may come up with some really good stuff.

same here dude, i think all this pickup line shit is really retarded and well, just weird. I wish there were easier ways to start a convo without asking such fucking dumb things that you really don't even care about.. like once i start talking to a girl my natural swagga kicks in and i dont even have to do any of this tricky ninja shit so my only problem really is to get the conversation started and rolling.

neither do i

I don't think it's retarded. I think its brilliant way to help people deal with social awkwardness and move society forward. It's suppose to be a starting point. Thats what this shit is designed for, so you can get through the first five minutes of talking to a girl, even if you don't have a lot of experience. Theres also stuff that can help your natural game if you don't like the pick up lines. I just started making up my own opinion openers about issues in me and my friends lives, it worked out okay, got me a # close, and as a bonus I've been able to improve me and my friends lives. Just about anything can work as an opener, but the stuff on this website, from my experience, gives a much better response than the stuff I came up with. You may think putting down the lines makes you better than people that use the lines, but really you are just limiting your own ability to use the lines effectively and bullying the people on this website into feeling bad about their game. Doesn't help anyone dude.

Day game for me is all about keeping it casual, while at a bar/club the music may be loud, people are openly drinking/drunk and space may be tight. Day game revolves around being casual/playful and get results to set something up for the future. I think that is where the biggest difference is. When you meet a girl in a club/bar/etc you expect at least some results the same night.