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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.
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NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.
A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.
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| Devin | PostPosted: Sun Sep 04, 2011 8:02 pm | |
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Posts: 13 | | I keep having this problem with women, and I think it's because I'm kissing too much.
I'll kiss a girl for the first time, and we'll make out a lot/kiss throughout the day, and the next couple days we stop talking to each other. They don't respond to texts, they don't return my calls. I'm always fun, but what am I doing wrong??
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| tnchn66 | PostPosted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 1:10 am | |
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Posts: 90 | | hey man where did you meet the girls?
like is it a k close in clubs and stuff?
if it is, they prolly were just wanting some fun
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| Chief | PostPosted: Mon Sep 05, 2011 10:28 am | |
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Website: http://seductiveintrovert.com | | You are absolutely right.
If you linger at any one phase of escalation, you're not escalating! Always be escalating. If you don't take the masculine initiative to push things forward, she's going to think you're a pussy or just not that interested.
To some inexperienced people (and kids), kissing is "special" and it means something quite significant. They think that if you kiss, you've sealed the deal and the attraction is solid. Unfortunately, things aren't really that way in the real world for us adults. Don't let girls get too comfortable with being in just one phase of the escalation. Escalate escalate escalate.
Another reason these girls may be ignoring you might be the fact that you didn't have sex with them after turning them on so much. Not only can this be a disappointment in many ways, it can also trigger their ASD. They think "Wow, I was so turned on by this guy. If I see him again, there's a VERY likely possibility that we will have sex, which would make me a slut!"
If you ALREADY had sex with a woman, she will rationalize her behavior in a way that avoids the slut label. "I had sex with him; that must mean I really like him, he is special! It's not because I'm a slut or anything."
So, again... escalate escalate escalate.
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| maria_ | PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2011 10:11 am | |
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Location: UK | | Well your problem is that you stay at kisses.
When a girl can have a no sex date she has all the time in between the dates to think about it and she will definitely go for the hard-to-get option and "make him wait".
While she makes you wait she loses attraction and she moves on to the next guy that he did not let her make him wait.
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