OK- day game- get an instant date with this babe- she is like the best date I have ever have and I am kind of shitting myself not wanting to blow it. We went for a coffee on the spot and were in the bar for around an hour and fifteen- talking and what have you. I ran light kino and complimented her a couple of times on her personality.

Did it pretty much by the book and get loads of IOIs and take her back to her car and yesterday text her, as she said we could meet up with just a simple text, and I go straight into the date details where we can meet, the time and ask if she wants to...this is where I probably bllew it. Should have called by phone and waited a couple of days.
Anyway , she answers and says, "I see you are quite demanding but I will let you know when I am free, kisses." Kisses is a usual ending cos I am in Spain.

I send her one back, going direct,as I had from the start and my opener, and simply say, yes I am demanding and seeing as she is a doctor, I said, " I hope she can presribe me something for my heart condition."(yeah I admit it is pretty lame)

No answer.

Now, I feel like I have blown it and in 24 hours have developed a massive crush on this girl.

any advice? Should I call or wait? I know guys this is the eternal question biut I really don´t want to blow it. I tried today to game other girls but just didn´t feel like it.

Any advice on how to prevent flaking?
cheers

unless you created some good initial attraction it's unlikely she'll get back to you, especially if she's hot. i would suggest waiting a few days possibly even a week. but youre the one who needs to follow up. dont schedule day2 on a thur, fri or sat. ask her when shes free then schedule to go to lunch or somewhere you prefer. give her details, when, where. and tell her to meet up with you. dont ask. if she flakes without a good excuse it's probably time to move on.

Cheers friend for the advice.
The whole idea of getting numbers is beginning to suck
Last week, I had a date and kiss close on Wednesday and an f close yesterday morning with a different girl.
I haven´t heard since from either girl....

They don´t answer the phone nor my texts so I feel pretty shit.
I forget my mobile last night- and the girl I had opened wonderfully said don´t worry I will take your number- she was pretty nice and we had been talking and vibing for a while- she seemed really into me. I developed instantly a massive crush. but in spite, I think that I didn´t come off at all as needy
Anyways she takes my number and I say can I trust you?

she says I am not going to let you down and she is busy typing the number into her phone.

So far I haven´t heard from the girl and I have spent all day thinking about her- in a kind of dream fucking world.

Anyway the original girl of this post has been in touch texting since but only cos I rang her and she didn´t take the call. So i sent a message saying, look I was just calling to ask if you saw me the other day with a camera.

she texts back pretty fast- "no, i just saw you with a black bag. hope you find your camera. kisses."- admittedly i was lying about the camera.

I text back saying I was sorry calling while she was at work and ask what is the best time to call-
in her follwoing text she totally ignores the question so I guess she isn´t interested.
The only thing I can think is these girls are so lacking in social skills they can´t say what they think and say, look I have just met you and we are getting on but I don´t want to give you my number. See you later"

take it easy friend