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PostPosted: Sat Sep 03, 2011 11:41 pm 
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I'm saying that you'll have to wait to see how she reacts to your actions in order to guess her interest and know what to do next. Just remember to be always pushing for the next step, whether that be talking to you, a date, holding hands, etc. Keep escalating.

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I'm saying that you'll have to wait to see how she reacts to your actions in order to guess her interest and know what to do next. Just remember to be always pushing for the next step, whether that be talking to you, a date, holding hands, etc. Keep escalating.
...got it, thanks!....I'll post an update on my progress sooner,


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I'm saying that you'll have to wait to see how she reacts to your actions in order to guess her interest and know what to do next. Just remember to be always pushing for the next step, whether that be talking to you, a date, holding hands, etc. Keep escalating.
The first sentence is great advice. I don't like the latter part in this particular situation. You've already shown so much interest in a clumsy way, its preferable to back off a little and make her want you a little more than pushing for the unnecessary hug or date. That said, constant escalation should be a conscious factor with every new girl you meet.


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My fear for him s that he's going to freeze up and not get anywhere at the first sign that things aren't working out. I'm hoping that he can make (very small but) incremental progress, rather than letting this stagnate.

But at the same time, I see what you're saying and agree with that, too. I guess it's just a matter of balance for the situation.

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...so far, I understand that I need to back off and make her want me by approaching new girls

after that when should I make my next move on her?


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...so far, I understand that I need to back off and make her want me by approaching new girls

after that when should I make my next move on her?
Like the Prince said, wait to see how she reacts before planning your next move. You're thinking about this way too much. You know generally where you want things to go, and you have the general concepts to follow in your head already. That's enough for now. Let things happen, don't try to control them too much. This is a relationship between two unique people, it won't fit any sort of formula.


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If you want her that bad and you keep thinking with that current mind state of "what if she does this what should I do?"

You ARE going to fuck it up.

Let go completely and it might take longer than month, like the guy said above me I forgot his name.. sorry bro lol. You are 2 unique people and there is no formula for your situation or something along those lines.

There is no guarantee because you already put yourself in a hole so now you have to deal with it.


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