Let me get straight to the point - right now I'm lying in my bed with my SPAM lying next to me. She's asleep. Nothing happened. We went out last night with friends and had a great time, I went home early because I have to work today, but when she got back she came into my room and asked to sleep in my bed because she saw a mouse and screamed the house down.

Could something have happened? What routine could I have used to at least kiss close? We're really close and I know she likes me, but I didn't know what to do, the whole thing was pretty overwhelming. Could I get a kiss out of her when she wakes up?

She has a boyfriend, but she isn't invested in the relationship; she's even said so.

Well, if she indeed saw a mouse and she's genuinely scared to that extent, she will just label you a "opportunist" and be turned off.

Just go hold her close and in the morning, tell her that it's fine and if there is indeed a mouse in the house (that rhymed ), you will take care of it.

If she's giving you signs that she is indeed attracted to you, don't hesitate in making your moves, boyfriend or not be damned. She'll take care of that, it isn't your concern.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Thanks man.

Nothing happened that morning, but she's still sleeping in my bed every night because of the mouse...and nothing still happens. It's weird.

It's not only because of the mouse that she's in my bed. We've basically dropped heavy hints to each other that we like each other, but I just can't seem to initiate anything even though we talk for hours before we fall asleep.

Are there any routines I can use to actually do something tonight? Like 2 steps forward, one step backward?