Ive asked this question before on other forums(not on this site),but here it is. You try to get with a woman but end up getting shoved into the just friend zone.(frequent member since 1998) So can you actually be friends with her or are you just deluding yourself?

This also leads to something id like an opinion on. I tried getting with this girl and it didnt work out. Shes though acquaintences(for the lack of a better term) with my friends and we're "friends" with her friends. It all started with my buddy and his girlfriend but i digress. The thing is though even though we're classifed as friends were really just acquaintences as best. The best point I can give is that she recently moved to san francisco and I didnt find out about it until i got and invite to her going away party. Would it be better to just cut my losses and just not talk to her anymore(shes still on my facebook friend list) or since shes friends with people I still talk to, just let things be?

"Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship." - Oscar Wilde

I even use the quote when women tell me "Can't we be friends?".

Ive asked this question before on other forums(not on this site),but here it is. You try to get with a woman but end up getting shoved into the just friend zone.(frequent member since 1998) So can you actually be friends with her or are you just deluding yourself?

You know if you have one or multiple HB8+ as a (good) friend it will be a lot easier to game other HBs if you go out with her. You can even game her friends. It's basically getting handed to you on a plate if you do it right. Consider it an investment.

That's what I meant by rewarding btw.

Watch the movie the ugly truth
Be her friend, encourage her and make her be open about other men, help her to get the other men
Game other girls and tell her about it without bragging
when she is having problems with guys help her and take their side if they are doing good and she is the one at fault, if the guys are the ones at fault, tell her how you would have handle it with skills
little by little she will start liking you
if there is an opening jump in..

This is blatant non-sense.

Do you ever read what you type?

Life isn't a movie.

Don't spread the wrong ideas, skills360.

I have almost ONLY guy friends. I don't mean aquaintances but people I can count on and are good loyal friends. I don't understand why this topic is always in question. YES, men and women can be friends. I know not all guys can do this but there are plenty that can. There may be some tension at first but it goes away and you can end up with something very special. Believe it or not men and women have much more to offer each other than sex. The very best conversations I've had were with my male friends.

So wouldn't the question be better asked as, "Can YOU be just friends with a girl?" because there are plenty of examples out there of male/ female frienships. If you can't be friends with a woman then why? Is it that your ego can't handle not getting any from her? Having female friends will get you lots of perks so be open minded guys.

I have almost ONLY guy friends. I don't mean aquaintances but people I can count on and are good loyal friends. I don't understand why this topic is always in question. YES, men and women can be friends. I know not all guys can do this but there are plenty that can. There may be some tension at first but it goes away and you can end up with something very special. Believe it or not men and women have much more to offer each other than sex. The very best conversations I've had were with my male friends.

So wouldn't the question be better asked as, "Can YOU be just friends with a girl?" because there are plenty of examples out there of male/ female frienships. If you can't be friends with a woman then why? Is it that your ego can't handle not getting any from her? Having female friends will get you lots of perks so be open minded guys.