ive gotten about 5 numbers of girls from facebook and girls i know all my age and id text them saying

Me: whats up bla, bla xx
Me: (few messages later)do you want to come out later? xx
Girl: yh okay. xx
Me: text me when whenyou want to come out later? xx
Girl: Okay cool xx

and half the time they dont text me to say there ready to come out!
and theyd text me the day after and totally dismiss the fact they didnt text me and just say something like whats up!

what am i doing wrong!

First- I wouldn't say "text me when when you want to come out later? xx" it's like you're sitting on your hands waiting for them.

Second- check out some text game posts, lots of great ideas out there. I just number closed a 9.5-10, and my first message was:

"______ who was that hot guy you were talking to last night? LOL- you know for a drunk girl you're kind of entertaining. Haha This is ____ just giving you my number."

Third- If you're going to make real time plans, it should be real time. "I am going to ____ right now- want to tag along?" If she says no, then say, "Cool- I'll have fun without you then, haha, ttyl" or something along those lines.

Fourth- flaking is going to happen, A LOT.

but if they give you there number they should come out other wise its pointless

It's not pointless to them. Especially to the hotter ones; they probably have 10 dudes texting them like crazy all day, if not more. Why the fuck should she bother with you if you aren't different from them, or continuing to build attraction. To her- you are just some guy she met, along with 20 others that day.

Men are the accelerators, women are the brakes. Keep building attraction (even with text) and you'll get the girl.

Also- why would you pull game online and then over text message turn into an AFC?

Its frustrating as shit, I know- but expect it to happen. ALL THE TIME. You're also applying logic where none exists.

im not i would talk to them on facebook for 5 mins get there number and then text them for maybe two days then ask them out

Ah- then you are building enough rapport ahead of time.

so your saying im rushing things then? but if i dont rush things i turn into an afc

Speed doesn't always equal AFC. The best PUA in the world are some patient mother fuckers. They take their time, stalk the prey and then strike when the opportunity arises. Be the lion.

You want to be a scalpel, not a hammer.

Thank you.

No worries dude- that's why I am coming up with a way to destroy flaking. Stay tuned.

Instead of texting, call them. You'll get a more personal connection.

I cannot emphasize it enough.

ESTABLISH A COMFORT LEVEL.

Unless you succeed in establishing some basic level of comfort and a steady rapport between you two, she just won't feel comfortable in coming out with you.

Let's face it, she just knows your as "that guy from that site", unless she familiarizes more with you, there will always be ignoring or flaking going on, from her end.

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