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PostPosted: Sun Aug 28, 2011 8:00 pm 
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Last time I did this was last October, so I'm happy I at least tried. (And I did it successfully at parties, last time)

Anyways, this was street night game so the targets were all moving, which is probably why I failed. (And I waited 'til like 2 AM to start cause I was nervous before)

Basically what I do is this. (Some 60YOC SWAG)

Me: Hi *Sticks out hand to shake*
Her: Hi *Shakes my hand*
Me: What's your name?
Her: Ashley
Me: *Move my head closer to her and to the left so it seems like I can't hear her. My ear is pointing to her mouth, signalling for her to repeat her name*
Her: Ashley
Me: *With my left hand I palm the left side of her neck gently and move my head so my lips are almost touching her neck, and just let her feel my breathe*

From there, I would try to go for the make out, and escalate further.

Anyways, when these targets are moving somewhere at 2 AM, this bitch becomes hard. I got rejected like 4-5 times in a row. But I'm wondering, does rejection really count if I don't stand there feeling like I got rejected.

Once I get rejected, I say stupid shit/am a dick to them.

The first girl I tried this shit on was moving fast and I shook her hand. After that she says, "Sorry I don't talk to white guys." (Even though I'm not white, I think she was joking) And I replied something like, "Oh yeah well I got a 2 inch penis!" and my friends just cracked up.

Another girl I approached didn't even shake my hand right, bitch side stepped me like a boxing match! So I replied, "You could've had a one night stand with a player, but you fucked up!" And my friends were lol'ing hard.

A cutie I approached shook my hand and left saying, "We're going to our boyfriends house." I'm say something like, "You got a boyfriend too? We got something in common." And my friends were dying.

It was a really fun night nonetheless.

Anyways, I'm wondering... if I get rejected and don't tuck my tail between my legs, do people see me as getting rejected? Is it one of those things where all the girls will see you get rejected and none of them will talk to you. (Even though people are moving on the street so there rarely posted up in front of a place)


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"Another girl I approached didn't even shake my hand right, bitch side stepped me like a boxing match! So I replied, "You could've had a one night stand with a player, but you fucked up!" And my friends were lol'ing hard. "

Purely reactive.. Tyler (rsd) talks about this numerous times. About how many guys will ask to buy her a drink, she says no, and the guy will get defensive/reactive and say "ok well you're just a lesbian anyway" for example.

Best reaction is no reaction... poker face.. shows character and will power. You can always just walk away with no smile nor froun.

Do girls see you get rejected by other girls? Depends on the situation... but girls (and guys) typically notice all of these little social cues unconsciously. It's like each person has a social value and it can fluctuate. Like when you walk into the bar with 2 other dudes versus 2 other girls... huge difference in social value. Mystery's flash game involves taking a photo with girls so that everyone looks and notices. Also your state may be pretty bad if you're getting blown out time after time, and it can transfer over.

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"Another girl I approached didn't even shake my hand right, bitch side stepped me like a boxing match! So I replied, "You could've had a one night stand with a player, but you fucked up!" And my friends were lol'ing hard. "

Purely reactive.. Tyler (rsd) talks about this numerous times. About how many guys will ask to buy her a drink, she says no, and the guy will get defensive/reactive and say "ok well you're just a lesbian anyway" for example.

Best reaction is no reaction... poker face.. shows character and will power. You can always just walk away with no smile nor froun.

Do girls see you get rejected by other girls? Depends on the situation... but girls (and guys) typically notice all of these little social cues unconsciously. It's like each person has a social value and it can fluctuate. Like when you walk into the bar with 2 other dudes versus 2 other girls... huge difference in social value. Mystery's flash game involves taking a photo with girls so that everyone looks and notices. Also your state may be pretty bad if you're getting blown out time after time, and it can transfer over.
I disagree with that. If I really felt hurt over the rejection and said that, then it wouldn't be good. But the way I feel when I stay dickish shit like that is... I want some self amusement... I want to make my friends laugh, etc.

I think the SAFEST reaction is the poker face. I guess I could do that, but it wouldn't be half as fun. I'm interested to know what you think about this.

Discuss. . .


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When someone rejects me, I either say that I wish her the best or just say nothing so I can maintain positive vibrations for myself. If someone is being really rude, I'll either laugh (if I find it funny) or ask the girl if she feels that that's the way a polite adult talks to someone they don't know. Never have I felt the need to be rude or dismissive after being rejected.

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I never let anybody know I felt affected by them.

An AMOG the other night came up to me and say, "go away you fucking faggot before I punch your face in."

I responded with, "It was nice meeting you, hope you have a good night."

Consequently enough, a 2 set overheard and opened me. It didn't result in a 3 sum, but it was just the point that if I got pissed like any other AFC I wouldn't have had the opportunity with them.


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Dude if your buddies are listening and gawking at your approaches, girls will reject you on principle.


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your reaction to the rejection were merely 'saving-face' reactions. And yes, they're funny to some, sad to others.


anyway, so you move in.... then what? let the moment decide itself? weak shit. atleast ask "what are you doing tonight?"


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Dude if your buddies are listening and gawking at your approaches, girls will reject you on principle.
has nothing to do with it


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I never let anybody know I felt affected by them.

An AMOG the other night came up to me and say, "go away you fucking faggot before I punch your face in."

I responded with, "It was nice meeting you, hope you have a good night."

Consequently enough, a 2 set overheard and opened me. It didn't result in a 3 sum, but it was just the point that if I got pissed like any other AFC I wouldn't have had the opportunity with them.
oppertunity...............

funny though, lol

"problems? I know too many people for that" and that shit works. I had to use it several times tonight and it seems to strike something, especially if you're feeling comfortable where you're at.

but still, can we drop the 'getting opened by girls'. dress silly and you will at one point of the night. it's not a game of who gets opened first. comeeee onnnnnn


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Finally, a veteran posted. Vaj has swag.
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your reaction to the rejection were merely 'saving-face' reactions. And yes, they're funny to some, sad to others.


anyway, so you move in.... then what? let the moment decide itself? weak shit. atleast ask "what are you doing tonight?"
Isn't saving face better than not? Should I just stand there like :O. Or, I could keep moving and not pay attention to it. (Omg, I'm such an alpha male by not reacting. Fuck that!) OR, I could make it fun and save face.

As far as then what? One night stand is the goal. So of course I'ma get to the logistics asap.

I'ma revise my opener a bit. It's hard to stop a HB walking somewhere, at night. Maybe some opinion openers.. That "you look familar" look... w/e makes this thing work!


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Last time I did this was last October, so I'm happy I at least tried. (And I did it successfully at parties, last time)

Anyways, this was street night game so the targets were all moving, which is probably why I failed. (And I waited 'til like 2 AM to start cause I was nervous before)

Basically what I do is this. (Some 60YOC SWAG)

Me: Hi *Sticks out hand to shake*
Her: Hi *Shakes my hand*
Me: What's your name?
Her: Ashley
Me: *Move my head closer to her and to the left so it seems like I can't hear her. My ear is pointing to her mouth, signalling for her to repeat her name*
Her: Ashley
Me: *With my left hand I palm the left side of her neck gently and move my head so my lips are almost touching her neck, and just let her feel my breathe*

From there, I would try to go for the make out, and escalate further.

Anyways, when these targets are moving somewhere at 2 AM, this bitch becomes hard. I got rejected like 4-5 times in a row. But I'm wondering, does rejection really count if I don't stand there feeling like I got rejected.

Once I get rejected, I say stupid shit/am a dick to them.

The first girl I tried this shit on was moving fast and I shook her hand. After that she says, "Sorry I don't talk to white guys." (Even though I'm not white, I think she was joking) And I replied something like, "Oh yeah well I got a 2 inch penis!" and my friends just cracked up.

Another girl I approached didn't even shake my hand right, bitch side stepped me like a boxing match! So I replied, "You could've had a one night stand with a player, but you fucked up!" And my friends were lol'ing hard.

A cutie I approached shook my hand and left saying, "We're going to our boyfriends house." I'm say something like, "You got a boyfriend too? We got something in common." And my friends were dying.

It was a really fun night nonetheless.

Anyways, I'm wondering... if I get rejected and don't tuck my tail between my legs, do people see me as getting rejected? Is it one of those things where all the girls will see you get rejected and none of them will talk to you. (Even though people are moving on the street so there rarely posted up in front of a place)



If girls see you get rejected, it will lower your value, key word if they saw the incident. Constructive criticism, this is a horrible display of game...Is this what 60 is teaching hi, and then go for make out, that is crazy. Moving targets are very difficult. Change your game, by your description that is creepy.

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But I'm wondering, does rejection really count if I don't stand there feeling like I got rejected.
So glad you said this, cuz the answer is: Nope! The only way to truly be rejected is to make a big deal out of it, or to make it mean something!

True naturals and true players don't fear rejection because even if a girl says "no" they don't take it seriously.

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Last time I did this was last October, so I'm happy I at least tried. (And I did it successfully at parties, last time)

Anyways, this was street night game so the targets were all moving, which is probably why I failed. (And I waited 'til like 2 AM to start cause I was nervous before)

Basically what I do is this. (Some 60YOC SWAG)

Me: Hi *Sticks out hand to shake*
Her: Hi *Shakes my hand*
Me: What's your name?
Her: Ashley
Me: *Move my head closer to her and to the left so it seems like I can't hear her. My ear is pointing to her mouth, signalling for her to repeat her name*
Her: Ashley
Me: *With my left hand I palm the left side of her neck gently and move my head so my lips are almost touching her neck, and just let her feel my breathe*

From there, I would try to go for the make out, and escalate further.

Anyways, when these targets are moving somewhere at 2 AM, this bitch becomes hard. I got rejected like 4-5 times in a row. But I'm wondering, does rejection really count if I don't stand there feeling like I got rejected.

Once I get rejected, I say stupid shit/am a dick to them.

The first girl I tried this shit on was moving fast and I shook her hand. After that she says, "Sorry I don't talk to white guys." (Even though I'm not white, I think she was joking) And I replied something like, "Oh yeah well I got a 2 inch penis!" and my friends just cracked up.

Another girl I approached didn't even shake my hand right, bitch side stepped me like a boxing match! So I replied, "You could've had a one night stand with a player, but you fucked up!" And my friends were lol'ing hard.

A cutie I approached shook my hand and left saying, "We're going to our boyfriends house." I'm say something like, "You got a boyfriend too? We got something in common." And my friends were dying.

It was a really fun night nonetheless.

Anyways, I'm wondering... if I get rejected and don't tuck my tail between my legs, do people see me as getting rejected? Is it one of those things where all the girls will see you get rejected and none of them will talk to you. (Even though people are moving on the street so there rarely posted up in front of a place)



If girls see you get rejected, it will lower your value, key word if they saw the incident. Constructive criticism, this is a horrible display of game...Is this what 60 is teaching hi, and then go for make out, that is crazy. Moving targets are very difficult. Change your game, by your description that is creepy.
I'm good lookin' right, so I don't see myself coming off as creepy... but rather coming off as too strong lol.

Warped just said you have to risk creepy. 60 does say this also... Ugh choices choices....

discuss....


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^ I've witnessed plenty of good-looking guys being described as creepy.


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