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Yep, it is all in your head..girls will always be girls and women will always be women, no matter the time of day
however they both require different kinds of calibration. daygame is less sexual and physical, where night game you are allowed to get away with groping her and doing all kinds of quick escalation that would be harder during day game. call it a limiting belief, but show me a video at the mall during the day where you are touching her butt within 1-2 min and making out in 5. SHOW ME!
I think daygame is easier to get sets to hook, but harder to get physical and make outs. Night game is great because sex is in the air and you can take her back to your place. During the day, people are busy, but you can still be social and just build social momentum while flirting with girls. Then by the time night time falls, you are in the mode, and have been the past 5 hours, so when you go out you can beast it.
A little update on what has happened to me.. I have been getting 1-3 numbers per day over the past 1 or 2 weeks. Well, I hung out with one of them, we played badminton at the gym together, but she has a BF. i got a little physical but i'm not really feeling it. The other numbers i got (around 90% success rate for getting numbers) either flake or just didn't show much interest.
This is where Munroe mentioned that I try to NOT get the number because I think I am being outcome dependent. I'm on a college campus so the game cant be as quick or direct. Social power is most dominant. Also, "time bridging" by Mystery is where you plan to do an activity with her in the future, so that getting the number becomes the afterthought and not the main objective.
side note on approaching
when you realize how good you can really be is where I am at right now.
I have had some success, a few make outs, a few SNL's, lots of numbers and drinking.... but now I'm to the point where when I do *not* approach a girl who is very approachable (cute and alone), I beat myself up and ruminate about it during the day. Ill think about it a few times, and it doesn't feel good. So now *everytime* I see an approachable girl I talk to her... and it always ends up leading to a short conversation (again, daygame is easy to just chat)
similar to the 3 second rule.. approaching just becomes automatic. Almost as if you are "showing off" how easy it is for you to open a cute random girl and build attraction. That sounds bad but it just feels good.
Exactly... Daygame is less sexual and physical, exactly, fuck that a waste of time, if you master night game, why would you ever want to do they game, i did day game when i started when i master club game, why would ever come back, day game is toooooooooooooooooooo much work.. blah blah blah blah blah, get a freaking number, meet up, damm too much work, night game meet, make out, touch her all over the place, then get a number, get a bj, or get snl, which one do you choose... I was watching gambler 21 convention video, now is when he discovered what i am saying, and now he is hooked...
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