I've been exchanging mails with a girl I'm sleeping with (FWB with a strong friendship). We like to make these long teasing msg about what we'll do to each other. I haven't sent her a mail in a while (it's ok we only see each other once a month or so as she lives far and we're both busy people) so I thought I would play on the missing you part. What do you guys think; is this something I should send her or is it too AFC? I'm going to sleep with her anyhow, just wanna make sure it not DLV.

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I'd be lying if I said I was thinking about you every single moment of the day. Because I ain't. I go about my day with enough things on my mind to keep it occupied. Inevitably though, I hear, see, smell, touch or taste something that will remind me of you. It might be hearing a song you like. It might be driving by a place we went together and had fun at. It might just be two people walking by holding hands and smiling. It puts a smile on my face and it makes me miss you. Not in the usual agonizing way people say they miss something though. It just remind me that in that moment, I would rather be with you than whatever I'm doing at the moment. Of how I'd love to stare into your eyes while you're gently smiling at me, possibly (most likely) because of something stupid I said or did. It would make me smile for a while and I'd just go right back to what I was doing before.

By then, it would be too late, I would keep thinking of you more and more. Of how good your hair would smell as I run my finger through it while kissing your tender lips. About how I would feel you pressing your body against mine while you are kissing me with your eyes closed. How our hands would start to wander, how our lips would go on exploring.

It'd be hard for me to stay focused on my daily work and not let my vivid imagination take over completely. I would try my hardest not to think how I would enjoy each moment of undressing you slowly and caressing your nude body. About how we would make love to each other with the kind of passion that you only get with two lovers that truly care about each other. It'd be the pure pleasure of two partners whose bodies are made for each other mixed with the most insatiable kind of lust that keeps you going like it was the last time you would able to do it together.

Then would come the tender embrace that follows even the most furiously vicious lovemaking session and the peaceful aftermath in which you haven't got the slightest care in the world. Only then, would I be able to go back to my day and stop thinking about you. If only for a while.

You're making it sound as if you both are lovers, which you aren't.

If it's a physical relationship, keep it physical. Even when you are using words.

Lust is the driving force in the relationship. Not love, shit and the like.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

No

Sounds creepy to me but hey some girls like that. I wouldn't go for them girls though.

Fair enough.

There's a reason I didn't just send it straight away. I kinda got the feeling myself it wasn't appropriate, so I thought I'd sleep on it and read it back in the morning.

Turns out I got the same opinion as you guys. This would only be appropriate in a sort of lovey dovey relationship, not a FWB.

You're already friends, you're already having sex, you're already going to have more sex, what are you trying to achieve with this?