>where you're located

I'm in Spain
>your age

36

>how you got into "the game"

Not been in the game for long as been in a relationship for 11 years, but recently divorced (3 months ago)

>how long you've been studying and practicing pickup

Just trying to start again

>which pickup method(s) you like to use

Don't really have a method, just chat and try to keep cool.


>what your hobbies/passions are

Music

>what your goals are

Meet some women in the short term to help the process of forgetting about my previous relationship/marriage.


>and whatever back story you wish to share with us.

Had been in a relationship for 11 years, 6 of those married. It wasn't working for some time and we divorced. Need to get backin the game, not particulary for a new relationship, but to just feel and taste a different woman to help put my previous relationship in the dustbin of history. [/b]

welcome

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

Thanks Vitamin J.

Have been busy looking over the site and the terms of importance are great. I reckon I could describe myself as a bit better than the AFC, I'm not wimpy around women, but I must admit I've been prone to oneitis. I mean even when things were shite with my ex-missus I was trying to convince myself that "she is the one" and other such bollocks. It's great that there is a name for that.

I divorced three months ago and in that time i've just been sorting various shit out: bills, mortgage, house etc, but I have been messaging the odd bird on POF and facebook, but not with any real conviction yet.

Last weekend i went out with my mate and his missus who were meeting up with a female friend of theirs. To cut a long story short, she brought along 5 friends. I got on great with one, but i got drunker as the night went on and only got her facebook. It was slack, and I'm the first to admit i'm out of practice. I mean I didn't have a great game before i was married, and I had been with my ex for nearly 12 years, so you can imagine. I probably seemed too eager as well, and there was a bit of oneism going on too. i thought she was the one! what an idiot! I mean there were 4 or 5 other good looking girls there too!

Looking forward to sharing more stuff on here.

Steve.

Dude, next time, hit on all of the girls there.


1. When a girl see's a guy getting other female attention it triggers a competitive nature known as pre-selection. so the best thing you can do in a case like that...hit on all of them.

2. don't give the girl you want too much attention you want her to work for it and if you make it too easy it can scare her away.


Best of luck

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"J, I guess yer so amazing in bed you send the girls into a transcendent state where they realize their own mortality and are shaken by the realization that their presence bears little impact on the universe, or they just realized they hate you"
-DJ_Z

Pre selection.

Brilliant mate.