Hi i tried to approach girls in the mall today with my friend by my side. We lingered around many time, found many excuses, the high point was i saw one standing outside a store texting, after standing around for what felt like forever i finally went up to her, she wasnt pretty, the conversation was blah blah..i moved on. The lowest point was, seeing this cute girl going up the escalator, she was texting but i was so intimidated, and the same girl walking into the mall when we were on our way out. On the way out, my friend is...like stop her and talk to her, and i just watched her walk by me, not even look at me, and it felt like staring death in the face lol i dont know why. She was really cute, some indian girl, nice body also, on the way out she was walking very stuck up with her phone up high in her hand, nose in the air almost, maybe im imagining and they are nice to talk to.

My idea was i'd stop her, say hi, say she is cute and i had to say hi, but i felt a girl that hot is so used to it from so many other chumps. But at the same time i dont wanna use any fake lines and excuses, thats even worse for my mindset.

try My technique called STBO walk up to her, both of you. but first decide wich one of you want her. If its you, pretend you are talking in your telephone or do call someone for real. so here we go: walk up to her , let your friend start the conversation with some lame-ass shit. while he is talking to her, youre still on the phone pointing half-away from them. after a moment your friend and she introduces them selfs to eachother, then your friend tells her to greet you. Reject it by telling: not now, that your in the middle of something. wait another 20 seconds. Now your friend says: Man, she's rly nice, introduce yourself!, Tell both the girl and your friend that you still have to deal with something. wait another 15 seconds and Put the phone down. Tell them: what was so important? Friend says : introduce yourself!, You introduce yourself. now the friend of yours tells you he'll be right back , he wants you both to stay right there , couse he will show you something amazing when he returns, *and he walks off fast*, it's here were your talking begins, start with a opinon question and go on:),

It's always working for me! and it always will, couse by rejecting her you'll show higher values.

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my friend is a bigger pussy than me and we are wayyy too inexperienced for stuff like this, and i wanna be real as possible

yeah for this type of routine the friend has to have the balls and skills to initiate a *good* conversation in which the girl stays around.

but nonetheless i think im gonna try it lol. Being on the phone and acting busy is always a big DHV.

if u got more routines like this, glad to hear them

Give your freind 100$.
You have 5 chances to win your money back.
Each chance returns you 20$.
If you pussy out your freind keeps 20$.
Grow some balls and good luck,

-Sil3nt

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I would say if she didn't give ya eye contact, then write that one off and move to the next, otherwise you might come off as too pushy. Her texting while walking along sounds like a defense mechanism to not be bothered, but if ya really don't care about being pushy, then say "hey whats up, I need a pretty lady's opinion on some perfume for my sister, can ya help?" Then just work it from there!

i have bad vision and i cant wear contact lens, so if she does look at me from far away, i cant tell, but close by i think just about every girl flat out ignores me. On the other hand i've been complimented on looks as cute or handsome throughout the years till now so i have something going, girls have also flirted with me and blushed around me, but i was too stupid to taking advantage of those in the past.. my idea is girls probably look at me and think i am ok but dont really bother looking or approaching me..

well i have aa too but i do dare to ask for directions because it doesnt feel like its flirting so i mentally put it in another box and im fine, maybe that works for you to get some experience too? just ask for directions and odds are you get a conversation

Is it just girls you can't approach ? I mean can you approach like random strangers you aren't attracted too?

What I myself did was to just build up slowly small comments to strangers you meet just little compliments then move onto girls.