Get her on a date. Just the two of you. No classmates invited.

UPDATE:

-i forgot to mention, we exchanged phone numbers...about 2 days ago, while chatting on facebook

...Ive been thinking bout that lately, but I think its too early....we still are not that close enough, so she might say NO.

...anyway, Ive heard that going to the movies is a bad choice since you spend most of your time watching the movie than interacting with each other. what are some good choices?

If it's that awkward at school, you won't be able to build any more comfort without inviting her out alone. Whenever you talk to her, try to elicit events or locations (credit to Style for this part). Get her to bring up what she likes to do, or what sounds interesting and suggest that you two do it!

Alternately, invite her when you need to run errands in the mall, get new clothes or shoes or toothbrush or anything. The task will give you conversation topics and keep things from getting stale. There's a thread somewhere about first dates, go find it.

Simple set up a date (OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL) through facebook and ask her out, or make a move.

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Perfect. You're concerned that you may not be "close enough", but:

1. You won't get any closer without asking her out and having time to yourselves. Facebook isn't good at that connection stuff, and school seems out of the question.

2. If you look at many of the people on this forum, our questions are for girls we're n dates with, whom we've spent five minutes talking to before setting up a date. Does "closeness" really factor in? Not at all.

Finally, you're afraid she'll say NO. If you never ask her, though, it's a definite NO, because nothing will happen. In fact if you wait too long she'll chalk it up to you being a pussy, and the answer from her lips will be NO too. Pull the trigger, as some say.

Movies aren't that great for first dates. If you know there's a movie out there that you'll both enjoy, though, I think that would be fine, because you guys need to beak this connection barrier you have and do SOMETHING. I'd prefer you smashed through it, but if you need to work up to it, so be it. Read Chief's guide to movie dates here:

the-movie-date-repost-vt58940.html

All the same, minigolf or bowling will be better, because it will be more interaction between the two of you, which is what you desperately need if you're going to get something started.

i agree

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...ok, she kept on saying before that she had a busy life (i dont know if this is true or she is just pretending to have more activities already in her life)

...so anyway, I tried to ask her out on facebook (since we still cant talk neatly in personal)

...it goes something like this,

(after chatting for a while,)
me: ...anyway, when are you not busy?
her: i dont know, I'll try to check it
me: check what?
her: my schedule,
me: ...your starting to act like a secretary,
her: (laughs)
me: ..just tell me if you're free,
her: why?
me: ...lets hang out,

------------8 minutes passed, so I typed>>>>>

me: watcha say?

------------still no reply but she is still online and we even talked on our facebook group but it was of a different topic,

---------------an hour passed, she is still online.....still no reply
i dont want to send her another msg cause that might make me too needy,

....what does she mean? is it a yes or no? (im pretty sure she received my msgs)

..what should I do?

Well, she's not saying anything. That's never a good thing.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

It makes sense, as a high school kid myself. High school girls need social circle game. She thinks you're not the kind of person she would want to tell her friends she was dating. She may really like you personally, especially since she didn't say no, but you'd need to improve your social standing before she'd be open about seeing you (and you can't really suggest secretive dating).

its super hard getting over a girl but just do it for a while. she is acting too disintrested. i recommend you completly forget about her for a WHILE, focus on accomploshing things that will make you a higher value maybe work on ur beleifs and body language and i guarantee she will chase you if show you are alpha male and show you have better things to do than her.

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....ok, so today...we chatted with some friends on school and after they left, i talked to her....saying what she thinks about yesterday,

...she just, smiles (the look on her face was unforgettable)....waves his hand in distress (she usually do this if she panics)...and runs away still smiling...she went with her friends and went home...

...what just happened?...this thing is becoming harder everytime, -_-!

Bro chill. What are you doing?

You're making it harder on yourself, choosing to ask her out over facebook, then creating an awkward situation. Just relax man, she shouldn't be your only option, and she can feel that she is right now. Back off, look for another girl, and this one may or may not work out.

either she wants to not lose you to feel good about herself by givimg you those little iois that she knows will get you to react (which you shouldnt if you are alpha male....... ooooorrr she really likes you. Careful she may be showing false iois

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...yes, I know...Ive been thinking bout finding another girl...i mean, its not really that hard.. some of my schoolmates keep flirting with me (but i usually just ignore them)

....UNTIL, i asked one of my classmate which is her bestfriend (she tries to help me with her). anyway, when I asked my classmate why she was acting like that, she said that her friend is shy and that she doesnt want to be seen around with a guy yet.....she also said that she is still too young (but cmon! we are already in highschool!!)

....one thing i found out was that her friend keeps on telling her stories bout me, like...(how we chatted in facebook, and that i asked her personally and she didnt say anything, etc.....)

...so, is she attracted to me? playing hard to get? plain immature?

...and what should i do then?...