Im newly single so started hitting up the online dating sites. Im not useless with women. I get complimented on my looks fairly often and have a good job/education etc But Im far from being at the level I want to be. Ive essentially been using the excellent thread by Joeski as my blueprint thus far and that has made me register here in the hopes of getting better, being less AFC and contributing. Anyway on to the content of my post:

1. I sent a message to a girl. 4 days later (by this point Id forgotten about her) she replies. She apologises, says shes not very good at replying and asks me to add her on facebook. My friend who is more into game than me advised me to add her but wait until she messaged me. I added, waited 2 days, got bored and sent her a message. She is very active on FB, has not deleted me, but 4 days on still has not replied.

2. I was speaking to a girl via IM, everything was going really well, she was giving IOIs so I used the 'personable' line from joeski whilst giving her my number but I think I made a mistake. I didnt ask her to call me immediately because I was leaving (since this was 2nd IM convo I didnt want to leave it further and get friend zoned) I left it open as to when she should call me. Now, maybe she will call I dont know, but if in say 2 days Ive got nothing. Whats my play?

3. Every message I send gets read which is good. Ive noticed a lot of girls keep my message in their inbox, but dont respond. Seems kinda weird to me. Should I bother sending another message here or just give up and move on?

4. I get responses from a lot of free spirited people, students and early twenties etc. Thats great, but when I try and contact the LTR prospects (lawyers/doctors etc) I rarely, if ever, get a response. I dont see why. My ex of 5 yrs was a lawyer and I figure if anything I should be more attractive to that type of person (went to a good school, have a good job etc). Is this just a function of profile tailoring since my profile is very fun based?

Thanks for any help.