I met this girl a week ago. She's a hb9, a bit younger than me.

Whenver we hang out (but we haven't been on a real date yet) there's a great chemistry - flirting, kino etc, I get lots of ioi's, and other people keep saying all the time that we're in love

On one hand it's great because we both always have lots of fun together and she doesn't have that with most of the guys that she hangs out with. On the other hand I don't see how I can kiss close her if we never get serious...

You know - e.g. she beats me or I steal her cell phone and she tries to get it back - but how do I take it from there to a kiss close?

You definitely need to take it to a serious level. Ask her out on a 1 on 1 date before you're in too much of a friend zone. The good news is, kino is easy, so it shouldn't be too hard to curl up on a couch with her, slow down the conversation and let the sexual tension build.

Yeah - I've just asked her out for tomorrow for a walk

The trouble is that whenever I try to talk about something seriously - the whole chemistry slumps. Maybe I should alternate between serious and flirting...?

I have had a girl just like the one you are describing right there always flirty and playful and goed along in all my kino yet she never gets too serious. Well mate you DON"T need her to be serious a playful flirty mood works just as well.

From experience I know that the best way to kiss close this kind of girl is to just start wrestling with her she will most likely go along in this and at a certain moment when you are on top you'll just freeze while holding her wrists and look her deep into the eyes and just kiss her straight on the mouth. your bodylanguage HAS to radiate utter confidence and there must be NO sign of playfulness in you at all just look her into the eyes. This will either get you a rejection or you'll have yourself another girl.

Whoops!.... Ok guys tell me what happened cause I don't know...?

So when asked her out yesterday, she mentioned her (older) sister as if she was meant to be going with us too, but I thought it was a test so I ignored it. Then I made a standard joke that I'm meeting Anne at 3pm, Claire at 7pm, so 5pm will be perfect. She just answered "aha" after 10mins so I said: "I'm just joking calm down!" - she answered: "Yeah right..." and then we texted a bit more, and the usual chemistry was back on.

In the evening she texts me: so what time are we going tomorrow? I didn't want to text her all the time! - she's gotta have time to dream about me, be nervous etc. - So I just gave a short response.. but no - she texts back... I couldn't stop her so finally I said that I'm going to eat dinner.

Today in the morning she texts me (signed as her younger sister) that her older sister is somewhere else until 6pm, so what are we doing? - I responded with a joke about her parents and my mommy coming too. Then she said that maybe her female friend should come instead of the parents. I joked about that friend again, and then she said that her sister with boyfriend will join us later.

And I can tell from the way she was texting me, that she was a bit different - like a bit more serious and perhaps a bit nervous, and her jokes were a bit less funny

What is it? A sort of First-date-LMR? Or is she not ready yet? Or should I smell LJBF approaching? I'm not gonna kiss close her in front of her sister (even though I guess everybody knows my intentions there)! But I totally should escalate if I don't wanna end up in friend zone...

Help! What's going on in her head?

PS. I'm sure she was joking about her younger sister (as she's 8 or something) but not about the older one apparently.

I don't know dude. Guess you'll have to wait and see.

Is she physically flirty with other guys? Or at least touch them a lot? You may be misreading signals here, but no way to find out unless you get in there and try.

Update: So I was right - all these were tests, except for her sister.

I haven't seen her touching or flirting with other guys.

She's just too sure of herself - you know young hb9 - spoiled by afc guys - so she's playing games.

But today I actually amazed myself. She did to me something so immature, that I gave her back through her sister something personal that she had given to me 2 days ago as a gift I hope this was a clear signal. It's the most beautiful girl I've ever had a date with, but I'm not gonna let her play such games on me!