Hey everyone, I've visited this site a couple times before but I never became a member untill today. the reason for that change was during my first week of college (just last week) I saw this girl that was just stunning. And I realized, that I didn't really know how to approach a random girl and get her number or anything, I could do it if I knew them a little bit beforehand, but not like this.
What happened was that I realized that I needed to make some changes, and make them fast.
Two nights ago, I clicked the video section of the forums for the first time and saw a thread that was named "Asian Penis Pickup" I decided to watch it, and I was amazed at how easy they made it look to just go up and talk to a random girl anyway. The next day I watched all of the videos and decided that I would also approach atleast one girl today and even if I didn't get her number it would be ok.
This morning as I was waiting for a friend I was sitting in a quad and looking around and thinking about if I was actually going to talk to a random girl. I'm sitting there mulling it over in my head "Do it!" versus 'I don't know if I can!". I thought back to the videos and remembered how they approached and decided that I could do the same.
I'm still sitting there and I see this HB7 sitting at a table reading a book, I debate about whether or not I should go there, or if it would be rude of me to interrupt her. This debate in my mind continues and I look at the time and see that I only have just a little bit of time left untill I had to go with a friend to class.
I end up walking towards thinking, "Am I really going to do this??" "No, I'm not, too scared" you know what happened? I said fuck this, I HAVE to do this, no matter the outcome.
So, I walked up to her and said "Hi, I saw you and you looked kinda cute, I'm D" I extend my hand, she takes it, tells me her name. I relax a bit and end up teasing her about her name being totally unique even though it wasn't. The conversation goes on for a few minutes, so I try and get her number. She ends up saying that she doesn't give her number out and that she has bf, but if she saw me she would definitely say hi. I was fine with that since, I had to meet up with my friend right then, so I leave.
The good thing I know I did was actually manning up and going upto a random chick and starting a conversation even though I was sure I couldn't.
What I need to improve on: From the little bit that I have read on the forums was that I didn't kino enough, I should've done palm reading or anything to touch her more. (Surprising because I would do this naturally when talking to chicks in high school without even thinking about it) I should have made more eye contact and not been afraid of momentary silences in the conversation.
So, I have quite a bit to improve on, but. I WILL improve.
I thank you for taking the time to read this and if you have tips/advice/stories you think will help, please share. I will be trying to update this as often as I can and I will mostly be doing day/direct game.
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