Here is the situation:

been seeing my ex for a few months, and she is very keen to have me back. At first this girl listed a lot of things that she would never do and slowly, by ignoring her or having pics of me with other chics at parties pop online, I've crossed most of them off. There is one last thing on the list: have a 3some.

I have tried to bring it up by telling her that it would turn me on to watch her make out with a girl. But, she isn't stupid and she is also quite jealous so she told me she would never have a 3some. She said she would hate watching me sleep with another girl.

Advice, please?

Go on vacation without her and hire two hookers!!

lol, she will do it, keep up the pressure, in a calm (romantic) sort of way...

until she starts to associate your "love and validation" with the thought of you drilling her while she munches some other chick's muff.

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it actually means household of three. just puttin it out there.

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Ah, yes, the "I would never..." situation.

The truth is that taboo is mostly all a grand social illusion. I spent a lot of time in the public sex scene--bdsm clubs, swinger situations--and heard over and over and over and over: I would never from girls.

Then they saw other girls doing it. And enjoying it. And They figured out something they would do. And they liked that. And in a short while... they were doing whatever it was they said they would never do.

I know this isn't a lifestle that most would cultivate--taboos maybe social illusions, but most people are pretty attached to them (and for some pretty good reasons). But it really turns out to be not all that hard to push someone past what she previously considered a hard limit.

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