Hi guys,
I'm very new to this and haven't much experience in 'the game' so excuse the lack of terms etc. I thought I'd post my first attempt at using the info I've read from the countless pua books I got. It's a bit of a long post but I'm unsure whether it was the techniques or the fact we were on holiday why it worked.
I was on holiday with a few friends on a Spanish island. After countless nights drinking and being too drunk to talk to any women, I got fed and curbed my drinking for a night. Now, my approach game is absolutely terrible - I find opening an absolute chore as I have a serious lack of confidence/experience. In fact, I didn't open at all, my friend decided to run into an empty bar with a table of three girls sitting down drinking a fish bowl. Within seconds he was hanging upside down on a pole to the amazement of the girls. I naturally took the opportunity to introduce myself and joined in drinking the fish bowl. Te next 10 mins is a bit of a blur but it was these girls first night so we bounced to another bar round the corner with them. I was switching walking arm inn arm with each of the girls until I settled on the one I found the hottest...
In the new bar I sat outside and had a smoke with this girl when I decided to start using some of the techniques I read about. To start I asked if she wanted a drink and when she said yes, I told her to get me a vodka, which she did. Not being a natural in this, I started off playing a few magic tricks on her - I did the pick a number between 1 and 10, then 1 and 5 and fornthe first time ever it worked. I then did mysteries finger trick where you pretend to have telekinesis to force their fingers closed. She looked very confused and I could tell she didn't know what to make of me, but smiled and got me another drink (start if a very cheap night for me
). I then told her we we're going to have a dance, grabbed her hand and led her to the dance floor. Something must have been going right (not sure how) and I did a compliance test by getting her to 'twirl'. I stared her straight in the eyes and told her 'it looks like you want to kiss me' to which she replied 'I'm not sure'. Naturally I said 'let's find out' and that was that kiss close complete. I let her kiss me for about 2 seconds before I pushed her away and led her back to the bar for another drink on her. By this point she obvisouly very confused but the free drinks were going down nicely
the moment she turned her head, I placed my finger on her chin and span her head back to me for another kiss.
I only had a day or so left before my flight home, so my intention was to get her back to mine, so I said 'come on let's go for a walk'. I led her outside but hadn't planned it very well as there wasn't anywhere quiet around, although I did say 'hey let's go back to mine for a few drinks' to which she replied 'okay, but I need to speak to my friends and give them my room key. We went back to the club and she wanted to stay for another drink (free drink number 5 and I'm getting very drunk by thus point). The plan to go back to mine sort of got lost in a bit of drunken confusion. But we found a quiet spot in the club and got it on short of anything rude
meanwhile all the time i was teasing her and only letting her kiss me on my terms.
Her friends came along and we all started chatting. It was 6 am by this point and they decided to leave together - plan was out the window but I did get a number close.
We spent the whole of the next day texting and arranging to meet up later that night. At around 10 pm she text and said she threw up over dinner because of the drink the night before and couldn't meet up. I definitely know she wasn't blowing me off as I saw her friends out that night, although they saw me leaving with another girl (who was nowhere near as hot and another story)
Lessons learnt: alcohol is very very bad
I'm sure her friends must have told her they saw me leave with this other girl too as she blanked my texts the next day.
I know this is a long post, but any feedback would be appreciated
I really need to work on my opening too as I can't always rely on others to do it for me
CHAT