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It is not game over, until she stops answering your messages, or tells you she is not interested. Tidal, I used to have the same confidence issues thinking certain amazing gorgeous women were way to good for me so I would either: A) Self Sabotage myself by purposely fucking it up or B) Become really needy and pathetic by text. You are leaning towards B with your texts this girl needs Cocky Funny!!!! You are going to have to start with about 20% cocky and 80% funny and start slowly becoming more and more cocky. Use that fact that she wanted to kiss you as a stepping point. (not through text.)
The text game needs to end. Listen to some deprogramming videos, do something that you are good at (maybe play some sports, go skydiving, or go sarging tonight) This will give you some confidence for tomorrow and if she doesn't hit you up, it is okay! As long as your not planning to get hit by a truck, then you have time. So don't message her at all until she contacts you. If she doesn't, give her until Sunday. (Keep yourself on high energy, train yourself to remain confident no matter what.) You have got this girl interested, now it is just reeling her back in.
Good Luck, Stay the better you
~CleverRomantic
First of all, thank you for posting in my thread. Will follow your stop texting suggestion. It's so weird that I text, fail to get a quick response, and wind up writing her more for some fucked up reason. It's such a little boy thing to do, being so taken with her. She needs a man...
Am definitely gonna do the deprogramming videos and I also know what you mean by self sabotage. I was myself for a lot of the date. Then, when it was game on, I got all nervous and she was like, "You haven't been like this the entire time." Your cocky and funny concept makes sense. Being cocky and funny would have solved the problem that night, releasing the tension of "first-date-in-a-while-itis".
Will stay high energy from now on. Now that a few days have passed, I'm thinking maybe she's so cool and worth it that I should date a bunch of other chicks first before going back to her since my game could perhaps heat up again (then again, even though I want her to see the best of me, she's probably gonna be someone else's girlfriend before my A game comes around in two months).