i met my last girl through work... (also i was friends with her brother for a fairly long time) so i had all the time in the world to fall in love with her.
i am not a fan of night game (where i live it is a fairly small community and everyone knows everyone, i mean literally there must be like 2degrees of seperation). also i find the clubs in my area dont really attract high value girls. more just sluts.
so yea i like day game, and i have made dates out of day game before but i really struggle to get attracted to girls who i dont spend a substantial amount of time getting to know, even when i am completely physically attracted. i usually just get bored after a few dates and dont take it any further.

would i be more interested in these girls if i fucked them? i mean obviously sex is closely linked to emotions and all that bullshit. should i just push through and hope that i start to dig them as i get more attatched? or am i just finding the wrong girls? i want to find a girl i can hang out with 3-5 times a week and not get bored or anything, at least for a few months. im not in the mood to be a player. im more of a one girl kinda guy.

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms

you are being needy and helpless by assuming that a girl's job is to help you feel not bored 3-5 times a week.. it is YOUR job to get interested and learn to enjoy girls and get interests, hobbies, work, etc. so you have a life of your own and dont expect someone else's life to entertain you..

I hang out with my girl about 4-5 times a week so that's fine.

What your trouble comes from is the lack of knowing who you are as a person. I was the same way for a long time. But I'd actually fuck the girls an ditch em. I suggest getting to know yourself, your interests and what you would really like to do with your life. And then you will look for more concrete qualities in a female.

Also idk why you aren't sealing the deal? Dates aren't free lol. You better get that pussy.