Me and my friend try to approach random girls at the mall, because there are so many pretty girls. Thing is we just see them walk by us and we just dont have the balls to stop them, otherwise there is always an excuse not to talk to them. Also my friend acts more scared then me, which is discouraging, when i work up the courage he starts sweating and time dwindles away.

I dont know how to start to approach them. I know i have nothing to lose, but i try to think of something smart to say to them to approach them with each time and i am never able to. I need a minute or two with a girl to get comfortable if i see she is comfy then i can talk pretty good usually.

So if you're in the mall, pretty girls walking about their business, with their friend maybe. You're checking so many out but u dont know how to initiate without coming off creepy or loser or SPAM ur intentions right away which is(get number, get date, get girlfriend lol). What do you say to them when you start? Thinking of an excuse is so hard for me. I think it would be easier if i said, hi i thought i come talk to you, u look interesting... etc be straighforward and honest.

Someone please tell me a good easy way to handle the first minute or two of approaching a completely random girl, maybe she is walking on her way with her friend, or sitting in the food court. Just an easy standard way without some fake bullsh** cuz i dont like that.

Come on anyone please? I just want a good standard way to approach them that seems honest but not creepy or desperate.

Ask for help on buying something or finding a store.

"Hey what do you think about this shirt?"

"Hey where would you go buy ***?"

"I need to find a gift for my friend, she's very special etc"

i think opinion openers will do magic for u, u are truly asking for an opinion so u really arent hitting on them
but make sure u drop the time constraint first

step 1: ey guys real quik cuz i dont have time, i need to buy a little gift for my friend, what do u guys think about this (insert random chik gift here)

step 2: (let them talk) (insert bullshit non important girl talk here)

step 3, "transitioning" great advice thank u, actually i think u have a similar style to my friend, by the way im suagnoob (extend ur hand for a handshake) nice to meet u, what is ur name (to one) and urs (to the other)

step 4 fluff talk have a little chat with them here what are they doing etc

step 5 number close, i have to run but u guys seem kinda fun, give me ur number and maybe we can hungout sometime

damn saugnoob ur a real pro, u did it in 5 simple steps
i know it seems a lot but is actualy more fast than u think

haha alright i like that, i'll try it out yeah i needed something like that to think about. Just need an overall format of what i need to press for. Just wanna know, like if i dont wanna ask too many questions and dont wanna come off as i am interviewing them, but make them talk, how do i do that in general? Because once they start talking, i can make jokes or give opinions and it helps my cause that way cuz i dont come off boring then.

You need to work on your inner game. The way you posted that just makes you seem needy. I recommend you work on that. It doesn't matter what the fuck you say to a woman to open them. I would just walk right up to them and tell them whats on your mind.

Well by inner game u mean my confidence and self esteem. Thing is i used to be muscular and felt like a beast, but i injured my shoulder and even the doctors arent helping, lost 15 lbs of pure muscle. On top of that, i have some acne scarring on my right cheek, the old scars are now small red dots and maybe not that bad, but there are some fresh ones, it doesnt bother me that much but in my mind just a little bit sometimes. But the combination of my injuries and my acne scarring have put a doubt in my head that im not as good looking or beautiful as i was when i was 15 - 18... maybe a girl might not like me as easily as they did when i was 16 in high school, before i remember not doing much talking after meeting a girl but my friend comes and asks me out for her an hour later(being the idiot that i am i brush it off) she's just a friend now.

Fuck the weight loss. Fuck the scares (my dad always told me chicks dig scars). I am overweight but have the fucking confidence of Brad mother fucking Pitt. Key here is to fake it until you make it. Remember you are the prize and any bitch at the mall would be lucky to talk to YOU. So walk your ass over there and make her day.

Also remember if she blows you out.... guess what there are plenty of chicks better looking and more interesting than her. Just find some more chicks.