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PostPosted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 3:35 am 
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Tonight was a ball. Every approach was a success.

Question 1;

A couple of girls and a couple sitting in some sofa's in some bar?

Target-Brunette 7/10

Answer;

Ask for a cigarette from the group. Kneel by them.-the seats were real low, and it was that kind of a place.

Make a joke.

Leave. Speak with a friend. Come back. All smiles, -oh, you again.-

Where you from? Blah blah

Get up to leave.

Will I see you again?

/me takes number.


Question two;

A couple of girls standing out side club smoking?

Blonde 6.5/10

Answer.

Neg. Neg. Neg.

Leave.

Ignore in club.

See again. Large hello. Leave and flirt with her when she leaves.

/me takes Number


Question 3.

Brunette 6/10

Neg. Neg Neg.

Take number- important to make your negs funny..


***

It was my birthday. Notice how the numbers of the girl went progressively lower as the night went on?

Its called alcohol baby ;-)

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Funny, I always thought alcohol made the numbers go up.

Better double check and make sure it wasn't 6->4.5->4


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lol

True, that does make more sense now that I'm sober.

Will do a further game analysis..

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haha regaurdless your out there in the field working some sets


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 12:45 am 
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Hey, success comes in varying ways, and to me you made it work. Good job.

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The somking area is definatly a good place to open.......even if you dont smoke.

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I find my 100% success rate story was unbalanced and the 100% figure seems to have been calculated counting my successes, ignoring my failures. With the benefit of hindsight and that beautiful old feeling known as complete soberiety, I would put that figure at somewhere much closer to 70%

First targets were outside the club, they made eye contact, but I was feeling shy. I smoked, ignored them. Went inside. And that is the worst strategy, if you won't talk to them you never know, would they have given more ioi's, would they have given more, some cheeky shit tests?

I will never know.

But inside I found some brunette 7 and opened with a your beautiful opener and she stopped and told me she was transexual-a lie- I hope- and a real life shit test :-) I told her she looks like one and blah blah and left her and found my wing inside at the bar talking with some beautiful nordic looking blonde girl who looked like she was already taken by my wing.. So I joined them and she worked there.. Its always good to get close with the staff ;-)

Then came the blonde I liked, not my friends, but some other one, fiddling with cigarettes, and yeah, the smoking area girls are easy, like all of them are wherever ;-)

Humility:Shall we smoke?

Blonde girl: Sure

I chat to her friend who keeps laughing then go back inside, her and her friend follow, but stay with her other friends, I ignore her and enter another set with my wing. No targets there and once my wing was established there I left to go find my blonde.

We smoke, she laughs, her number works its way into my fone.

I pull away and tell her I have to see my friends

***

Two days later she phones me- I think its two days..

***

Then I leave with friends and wing and in the next place is one girl who refuses to give me her number. I should have never asked. Will only hint in future. That would eliminate the huge amount of useless numbers I get and allow me to better focus on more interested game.

Two girls sat at a table with a couple were easy too.
Entered by sitting beside them and then ignoring them and chatting with wing. Then they started chatting with us.

They seemed dull and too low level targets to bother with. We're quite picky..

I entered next set with some smoking question-smoking is a good ice breaker and rooted in every smokers sub conscious, but only since it became illegal, but its rather dull, so important to get laughs in the next sentence and I'm suspicious that it will be too old and think I have to kill this opener soon, unless its in a place where the law is new, and here its still kinda new..

Wouldn't give her number >.< but she said she comes here often.. I think I pushed the coincidence joke too much..

Saw the first 7 brunette outside and she told me to add her in fcebook.

For a friday or saturday or even a thursday, I would have been dissappointed with these results, but for a wednesday, with its far lower number of girls,


*shut your eyes, boast imminent warning*


we dominated every bar and club we went too and the night was very Zen.



Its definitely better to look at the game as that, a game, where you win, you lose, you play. But always you improve, take note of the behaviourisms, of the targets of yourself, because the people are your environment and your quarry. Behaviour definitely has patterns that you can influence. Life is energy patterns and that means you're energy and so is everything else. The way you engage with people alters their energy and thought patterns. Some nights you will be on fire and kiss close numerous girls and other nights you only get numbers. Self analysis, is a fine thing. But recognising the interconnectedness of all things and understanding you're a part of the whole is a super fine thing and to succeed in your will or to have the patterns your mind would like to see manifest and reflect themselves in reality, the way you think and act and feel, must be aligned correctly with her unconscious desires.


Love and wisdom to you all

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 6:33 am 
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Today was an interesting journey..

On way to meet friend at station. Ummm he appears a lot in todays account, and probably will in future..

I will call him Bob for anonymity sake ^_^

I walk past some girl on the phone outside the station, she looks shy, she looks busy, she looks at me, she puts down fone.

I light my cigarette and she looks at me one more time

Dark Jedi: Going anywhere cool tonight?

Girl from bench: I'm waiting for a friend. -Smiles- You?

I tell her how my friend is meant to meet me but in some complex confusing way. Something like, he will come up there, I will go down there. Numerous homosexually suggestive innuendo

She laughs

Her phone rings and she says sorry, please wait.

/me waits and friend calls me

She smiles at me. Someones eager..

Dark jedi: Talk neg talk neg- my negs r sweet like honey and bees-

Dark Jedi: Will I see you again? We shouldn't leave it to coincidence-I've been let down by that too much, and you look beautiful.

*Dark jedi touches or brushes her left cheek with the back of his hand extremly softly so its as if I didn't touch*- doesn't stop talking

Something about how the universe gives one chance for us to take, about how language is amazing, the way it effects the mind.

I give her my phone. She types her number in kisses my cheeks, leaves.


I continue my journey.

The second target came later, and in a bar pub like place and by now there were three of us. My wing and his younger cousin who is seemingly fearless in approach but needs a little refinement, a little modification to his game. I suppose its because he's young and eager, but he has bravery, and observing him I can see its not enough. But he's young, and I think, to really excel at pick up art you really need to have a lot of indepth relationship experience with a few women-it has the effect of making you know women are no better then men, and somewhat more twisted-

Actually, having seen what you guys study at this site. I'm impressed, if I had been taught this stuff in school I would never have made half the mistakes I made, but alas, everyone believes relationship skills and the games that people play amongst each other, should be learnt with suffering and pain and they didn't even tell me I would feel heart broken when my first girlfriend left me or the strategy's women employ be it unconsciously or whatever.

But anyway..

We saw a couple of girls at the bar. I asked my wing

Dark Jedi: How would you open a set at a bar?

Bob: Watch

So I did. One curly brunette with a cute nose leaning back with her back against the bar, another straight haired brunette beside her.

Bob: How about if I won't waste my time and get straight to the point?

*The mind of the dark jedi*: Noooooo, wtf is he doing? He's usually succesful, how is he going to get anywhere like that?

*What the dark jedi observes*: They looked shocked. Unimpressed, but with giggles starting to form on the corners of their lips.

Bob: I'm a straight forward guy. I hate those guys who talk a lot of crap when really they're only after one thing.

*The mind of the dark jedi*: Please god, no more.

Bob: So how about I get to the point. I like you and you like me.

They laugh and the smiles refuse to leave their lips

-please note, pretty much anything -can- work so long as its delivered properly, delivery is key, understanding of the target, being able to read what she will like is a key.

*Dark jedi and cousin of Bob swoop like Vultures, the two set is ours and from here on we spend a while chatting with continuous suggestions that we have to leave but these two girls keep talking and I kinda liked the one my friend isn't interested in an she seems to kinda like me so I ask for her email address I want to send her something..

Bob takes girls number.

We got outside, fool about with a few sets on the benches, then go cross the street to some other bar.

Bobs little cousin throws up

:shock:

We leave and hire him a cab.

Next we go to some club, Inferno, in Clapham North.

My advice is never to go to that club and I have a number of reasons

1. It has a no readmission policy. So once you're in you have to stay there until you leave and they won't let you in a again unless you pay and no, you're not allowed out even for a cigarette.

2. Its too noisy. Its impossible to talk without shouting a few centimetres away. So all linguistic advantage is weakened.

3. Women in clubs like Inferno have more barriers up. They assume guys will be chasing them. Which is usually the case I suppose, but they assume the guys will be drunk and well, that is usually the case I suppose.

4. Its called Inferno


But I did get a couple of kisses in there. But I fail to remember what opener I used on the first one or anything I said and the second one started playing with my scarf..

-clever usage of peacock theory works, remember its a fine line between peacocking and looking stupid. Must look cool


Dark jedi: Bob, lets get out of here

*Dark jedi and Bob leave the club, talking with everyone on the way out- I assume it gave us social proof or whatever you would call it*

We found a sweet little New zealander outside, I cover her with cute negs and by now, much more importantly I can light a cigarette and as you know.. in the smoking area, closing numbers is guaranteed a large portion of the time, so we spend a few hours with her..


We go home.

Pretty wide eyed, blonde comes in the bus. She looks at me. I ignore her.

I get of the bus and she gets of after me and I ignore her cross the road and I look back and she looks at me and I turn and approach, but oh no, she's with friends.. its important to look cool and approachable- cos they just left us to talk..

Dark Jedi: I saw you in the bus and you have a beautiful gold aura, but you look a little unhappy.

*Blondes mouth beams*- they usually love new age stuff

We talk, number close, I go home.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 10:31 pm 
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Life is energy patterns and that means you're energy and so is everything else. The way you engage with people alters their energy and thought patterns. Some nights you will be on fire and kiss close numerous girls and other nights you only get numbers.
So true. Good for you for going out and working your magic. That's the only way to learn and improve. There are also ways to get your energy level up so you're "on fire" more often.

Thanks for sharing this.

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Yes.

We're united again.

Like candy and floss.

Like butter and bread.

Like, like etc

While winter wasn't exactly an invite to hibernating, it wasn't exactly conductive to optimum game.

When the streets freeze outdoor game nearly goes out the window and kiss closing women you find in the street is almost impossible.

Kissing when your cold is lame.

:?

So what is there to do? We traverse from club to club, honing skills, sharpening the mind trick, analysing behavioural cause effect responses in relation to subtle differences in body language, tonality of speech, oh and body language.

Body language is like the magic key, it doesn't even matter much what we say.

It's how we look, it's the way our bodies move, it's correctly asking subtle underlying questions and interpreting correctly the underlying messages.

Question: Touch of shoulder
Answer: No move

Question: Firm eyecontact
Answer: They usually look into your eyes too.

Then you push, then you pull.

Then you kino and escalate.

I would nearly say that's all there is too it. But it's not. There's so much to learn. It feels like the quest to supreme inter relationship mastery is exactly that, a quest.

Ask the correct question, understand her answer.

Ask further questions.

Now really, I'm talking subliminally here.

It really doesn't matter much what you say. What matters is that you correctly initiate, you correctly respond. I get most of my kisses with a few sentences. That's the outer appearance, that's what you would find to be the case if you watched and heard what I said.

But underneath the words I'm talking VOLUME'S.

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