I was planning rough and wild sex today but things didnt go the way I wanted to! I got called off on the last minute (
A week ago I got the number of this chick in a lounge with her friends. Got her number and called her days later.
She was very interested. I didn't even have to try, my wingman was so good and talked so good about me that this chick was all over me. Called her back a couple of days later. It was a weekday and I had to get up early so I only met up with her briefly at this lounge. First time I pretended like I was just there for a fun chat, didnt do anything that showed sexual interest. The girl was pretty reserved, I did most of the talking and she asked a lot of specific questions like she was thorougly analyzing me. Left and got the feeling she wasnt interested. Two days later she text messages me what im doing later on the evening. I said lets meet up. We met up and shes like what is wrong with you, why didnt you call me. I told her I had the feeling she wasnt interested. She was very surprised and thought I might be insecure. She also didnt like me asking her a couple of times about her age. I thought she might young but turns out shes 23.
She shows me pictures on her phone of her in her bikini and also some modeling work shes done. I give her compliments, she likes it very much. I know I shouldnt talk about how a girl looks but this girls loves it . She pretends like she doesnt really want to date but ask me a lot of stuff and when I tell bluntly im interested in her and that I love her personality and looks she doesnt blink but I notice from her behaviour that she likes me saying that to her. The tone got a little more sexual, I notice she responds well to small touches on the arm and legs. Still I make no moves so later on she asks me if im maybe bisexual and like guys. I say hell no! And I kind of realize that I should make a move soon because shes hinting that she would expect me to do so. She shows some of her piercings and tells she doesnt mind if I would like guys because she loves girls! I told her cool, you can be my wingwoman and we will go and pick up chicks next time! She says she doesnt mind, but then she makes jealous comments when I briefly look at other women(we were in a bar packed with hot women, like 80% women, 20% guys, and I noticed a lot of women were checking me out because I was with this hot girl). She says she doesnt trust me, something in my eyes. like im hiding something. The second time goes better than the first time. Im on top of my game and she thinks im pretty funny. So we go for a walk. I touch her some more and I blunty ask "Do you want to kiss me?". She jumped the opportunity to do so (she did say I need to work on my kissing game, and shes going to teach me). She says she doesnt like when a guy like me doesnt speak with her for days, so today I messaged her and asked her if she got home safe and whats shes doing. She wants to meet up tonight at her house!!!! But at the last minute she says shes very tired of the week and wants to stay home and go to bed early. OMG! I said OK but maybe I should have bluntly said let me come over and lets watch a movie. But stupidly I didnt say that at that moment. Tomorrow shes going to call me again but I kind of feel played. I dont want to spend hours in the city again. I want to go to her crib. What would you do in a situation like this?

Ugghhh dude. This post makes me sad.

She had complete control. You need to have kino from moment 1. That first date didn't go well because you didn't project interest. She asked for validation and you gave it to her (you let her brag to you about modeling). Not something an alpha should do. She gave you shit tests (most notably about you being bisexual) and you failed. Play the game! (Of course I like guys! That's why I'm here!!... oh wait, I'm sorry, I thought you had a dick.) Then she asked you to comply with her (by having you message her) and you agreed. She flaked on you, so neg or freeze out here.

This one can still be saved, but think about the frames you're setting when you interact with her.

Thanks for the feedback. Today she messaged me again and wants to meet up again. I think this girl wants a serious relationship. I agree that I need to have more of a gameplan and that I still have lots of beta male behaviour. I need more discipline in my game, because normally Im inclided to give compliments and go soft. I havent really been negging because I kind of feels unnatural but I need to do it if i want to see more results.

Be careful going into a serious relationship. You still have some work to do on your game, and the better your game is, the more successful a relationship will be.

You don't necessarily need to neg too much (my game isn't heavy on negs at all), but don't let her be the boss. You're the prize, act like it. If she makes a joke or statement about other guys, you doing some supplicating behavior (buying her a drink or something) or that she has something else she'd rather be doing (and other categories, you'll learn to recognize them) that's your cue to reframe the interaction. Write down beliefs that you want to project. That you're the prize, that she's lucky to be going out with you, that you can have any girl you want, that she is going to sleep with you but you get to decide when. If she resists your frame, start texting. Make her comply to get your attention.

I got lucky yesterday and was able to f-close it. I dont even think it had to with my skills because I had some brilliant moments but also a lot of AFC moments. I think shes simply a slut and I could have boned her regardless of what I was saying. She goes out a lot and I notice her checking other guys too. Im sure shes has more numbers of guys in her phone. Youre right about the relationship. I did too many AFC things to have set a good foundation for a healthy relationship. Ive noticed at times shes disrespectful and wasting my time. Ill keep this chick as a friend with benefit. Plus she hinted a couple of times shes heavily bisexual. At one point we were even watching pictures of naked girls on her phone. I said its hot and I love it and expected her to say lets meet other women, but I think she was expecting me too ask that. I was too drunk to come up with that at the time but next time I will just jokingly ask it.