I've been volunteering at a charity for people with mental health conditions for the last 6 months. I am usually with 2 Asian girls (one Muslim and one Sikh) and we have chatted alot and seem to get on well and have some banter and study the same degree. I'm white british btw.

I am leaving soon though to concentrate on uni and so are they and I sort of feel like i'll miss them and want to ask for their numbers but terrified it'll be weird or they'll say no.

Are Sikh and Muslim girls even allowed to give their phone number to a white guy? They even said they don't really talk to anyone else on their course and live at home from uni.

Should I phrase it in a more academic way such as "let me know how you go on!"

I'm scared of rejection but guess if it's my last day then I won't awkewardly have to see them afterwards!! I've never asked an Asian girl for their number before and i'm considering asking two!!!

Thank you for any advice at all!

What do you have to lose?

If you ask the number and they say yes, you can keep in contact.
If you ask the number and they say no, you never see them again.
If you don't ask number, you never see them again.

So do the logical thing.

It's your job to find out, go for it man. Just while your talking about something personal that you both like hand her your phone and say "why don't you put your number in my phone?", if you want a higher chance you can add "because we can hook up and do more charity/donation work and have fun if we meet again"

You're in a good position- you've warmed up to them and can say "we should keep in touch" or some such innocent thing. These types of situations are much easier than say a nightclub where triggering anti-slut defenses is much easier.
Just don't be too innocent or you'll be LJBF'd. I'd get the number in an innocent, friendly way then start peeling the panties...
There's nothing to be afraid of.
Well, maybe std's... and the coming zombie apocalypse.
I take that back, BE TERRIFIED

Well Punisher said the best think i dont think i can beat it

But all you have to do is to tell them

"Hey its my last day today, and i thought that im gonna miss you guys how about you give me your number so we can stay in touch?"

I dont really think they would say no.
And when you have the number game on,

I would ask them both at the same time, I think it would be easier that way because even if they're not allowed, and if the first one does it then it would be embaressing for the other girl not to give it to you.

I dont know if you understand what i mean but just ask them and like punisher said

" If you ask the number and they say no, you never see them again.
If you don't ask number, you never see them again. "

Great post, this really stood out to me.

But all the other replies are great. Just actually looked at my timetable and tommorow might actually be the last day. I thought it was next week. Very scary! I'm actually scared now ahaha but excited also.

I've never tried to get an Asian girls number and now i'm trying to get two, haha
I will be pushing myself outside my comfort zone ALOT but I think i'd regret it more if I didn't do this.

If i'm successful i'll get two numbers and grow as a person. If i'm unsuccessful i'll also grow from the experience. A win win situation isn't it.

Glad I could help, let us know how it goes.

Today I actually saw them and I said this was my last time apart from one time (which I knew one of the girls wouldn't be going) to see how they reacted. She said "oh I won't be hear then, I guess this is the last time i'll see you and her eyes watered (not seen that before on her) and they had to go so we didn't really say much else but she walked off jokingly after I said bye saying "look he's happy to see me go!!"

What do you guys think?

I'll see them again next week-any tips?

you already have a relationship with them, it shouldn't be that hard to just ask their number to keep in touch

"Hey, I've really, really enjoyed working with you guys. And not lying, am gonna miss you. So, why don't you give me your numbers, so whenever I'm reminiscing and feeling the blues, I can always ring you up."

That could work.

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Guys an update: I didn't get a chance to single them out and ask so asked both of them together. They miss called me and we got numbers that way so I know they're real. Didn't expect that.

I got a very good response was so suprised and they actually said we should meet up next time i'm in there which I was really suprised about...They said they'd text next week also. Also got a hug from both of them when leaving which was awesome.

Feel really good now to be honest. I know it's small or whatever but I would never have dared this a few years ago so it's MASSIVE progress. To be honest I didn't use any of the planned stuff It just came out and although it wasn't amazing it worked...

I was WAY overthinking it's hilarious.