long story short, I met this HB9 in a club where she bar tend. Got her number, txt the next day, agree to meet someday the following week. 5 days later, she txted me first to have a date. So I went and we met. Lot of shit test, and IOIs. We got really closed when we finally relaxed in a hookah bar. We kept touching and massaging each other (no kiss). All in all, the date was going really good.

during the first date, I demostrated alpha qualities and I can tell she's constantly shit testing me for that. I won't say I pass all her tests but i would say I pass majority of the tests. I was relax, and have a sexual frame while in the hookah bar. One major drawback was I kept answering her questions without being cocky and funny. This might have reduced my value a bit.

One week after, I txt her to have a second date. She responded after 3 hrs asking "who's this?"

So what's the deal with this girl? How should I salvage this one?

you failed the ultimate shit test, you didn't kiss close. her asking who's this is her blowing you off. learn from your mistake and move on

Ok first off. I call bullshit on that. There is no need for a kiss close if it's not called for. Kiss is nothing except symbolic of a connection between two people. No offense meant but in my experience kiss is only ever been a bonus for them.

Secondly you seem very tense about it all and stressed on the shit tests. This is something you see many people stepping into the game worried about and quite frankly it's bull honky. Shit tests do they exist? Yes. Important factor? Slightly. I can not stress this anymore than I am. RELAX!

Biggest quality of a alpha male? Calm about everything. Nuke just fell down in the states? Ah bummer I'll send them a get well card or something.

Figure it like this. Who is she to you? No one. Who are you to her? No one. Your strangers who met and got along ok. Nothing huge.

I'm getting ahead of myself. What I am trying to re-frame for you so you can see what I'm talking about is this:

You met at a club you #closed you even got a second date. Battle Won! Out of every other guy in the club she could be wafting her lady genitalia at she decided you were interesting enough to get a wiff. So you take her out to meet up, is it a date? Who know's, who cares? Your two friends catching up for a coffee over waffles.

Ok so your "date" went really well. You guy's talked everything was really chill nothing went "wrong". But did anything go right? Was it exciting? Did you make sure when she get's home and puts on a porno nightcap she would have you running through her mind?

My advice, use the game learn what you can from everyone here there are some really brilliant minds out there for this. But take it from the forefront of your mind to the back. The books/seminars are guidelines at best to make you aware of the mechanics. Whether you choose a spanner or a wrench depends on the task at hand. Do not let it take over what your doing but simply mold it. To many people feel it's a word for word guide book on what to do. WRONG! It's like... A compass. Your alpha male senses know which way North is... But you give a quick glance just to prove your an absolute top bloke.

Forget the shit tests I feel they scare a lot of blokes knowing they are there than not knowing at all. You can pass 90% of them simply by investing only 10% of yourself to the answer.

If your going to try and salvage this it's not going to be easy. I'm being deadly serious not like do I want two sugar's or one with my coffee. I'm talking about battling with yourself from texting her because you feel lonely at night (no shame in that I'll admit I have them). Put that hand down boy! Go Fap and go about your day!

Ask yourself is it worth it or is it easier to go to a bar and just have sex with another chick presuming this is what you are after. If your looking at this as a future relationship then again ask yourself how well do you know this chick? You met twice. Be serious. Everything is salvageable but the harder it is the more effort you exert.

"Who's this?" Either she's as daft as your hand for forgetting about scrolling down and going back to fapping. Or she essentially just told you don't bother. Your choice though the later is much more likely to be the case (It's the harsh truth, I sympathize with you I really do but end of the day C'est La Vie my friend).

Send her another text back. A casual response like "Hey my bad late reply mate came around and we decided we are hitting the clubs. It's (Insert Name Here), met at (Insert Bar Here)." Skip the date don't talk about it, if the date went well she would have still have your number saved or saved under something other than (do not answer). Your a busy cunt who has to do so many awesome things before you allowed to go to bed. Life just won't let you do anything boring.

Did she reply? Ya? Na?

Ya? How?

"Oh Hey! How you doing sorry (insert homo as excuse as to why I don't have your number saved). How you doing?"

If the above occurs continue game as normal. Pass go collect your two hundred dollars. "Not bad, just touching base see how your doing. Plans for tonight?"

If she doesn't reply. There is a simply process I want you to follow. Grab three mates go to an SPAM and hit the clubs and find some other buried treasure. It's simply not worth you time, your energy and further more you precious seed to worry about.

Fap away my friend and let me know how it went

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thanks for the advice. I'm not going to txt her ever again unless she txt me back first. It's not worth my effort to txt her again without her first acknowledge who I am first. Anything I do to get her attention from this point on will seem needy.

But what amazes me is how her attitute changed so dramatically within one week. Which makes my head spinning.....

come to think of it, i think i could be the one who's being gamed. what she did was arouse my desire on the first date, then reject me cold in the following txt.

What could be her motivation? Maybe she wants $$$$$? I think that because she's a HB9 and definately out of my league....

Well I am willing to settle to a sugar daddy/baby relationship if it works out. Any comments on this thought?

latest update on the situation:

txt her back and game resume as normal. Here's the transcript:

me: hey my bad. been busy and forgot to reply. it's (my name)
hb9:who is this?
me: it's (my name), met at (name of the club)
hb9: so?
me: nothing, just touching base and see what's up.
hb9: ok.. you wanna chill tonight?


at this point i know the game is on again.

Thanks T.Clean.

@ t.clean interesting analysis, good stuff.

curious about an update on this situation, good luck