I was hanging out at the bar with this girl that I've know for awhile. I was married before so nothing ever happened for the first 2 years we knew each other. But we barely knew each as it was, only in a situation where I was her superior. Shortly after she heard of my divorce I saw her out and she gave me a big hug and we hit it off ever since then. Hanging out here and there but nothing crazy.

I haven't made a move beyond some Kino because I have to be 100% for sure or making a move could fuck my life based on the position I am in as her superior.

Last week at the bars she started asking me if I would go for a girl like the hot ass bartender with the HUGE RACK.

What do you think the purpose of this question was? Was it a sh1t test? or what?

I said ya, if it was a drunken hookup. but for something serious, not likely.

lol jezus .. she is qualifying .. it could be a shit test...

next time fix eye contact .. talk very slowly ... like you are fucking sexually energized and mysterious....

let her know with body language .. her attempts ... are not in vain ....

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When a woman asks you questions about another woman THAT way, it's fair to assume that she is interested in you.

So, that is out of the way.

Now, you need to realize that is she worth the trouble, which you think might be caused if someone found out about you two and then, take your decision about it.

Also, you need to be very firm and clear in portraying your intentions.
Like that.

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Wait, did she say "Would you go for the bartender" or did she say, "Would you go for the HOT bartender with the HUGE RACK". You see, if she said the latter of the two, I believe she is comparing herself or her breasts in this case to the bartenders. At this point, I would mention something witty, such as "I was never a fan of huge breasts, I'd always think they would suffocate me at one point if I got too close" and then say "I prefer the breasts more on the safer scale" and quickly give a gaze to her chest just for a split second and return your eye contact to hers.


That's how I would have played off that situation.

she gave the bartender a sort of slow long look as the other guys in our group where chatting it up with her... Then she said 'you wouldn't go for that would you'

My main issue right now isn't what I'm doing, it's how I'm doing it. I'm just not doing it in the right way, with the right emotion, it's like I'm doing it in a bitch mode sort of way.