So, a month or two ago, I was added by this pretty cute girl on FB who was attending the same college as me. She and me had great conversations through FB, and she asked to meet me last night. So I took her out at around 12am to go get some food. I had a good time and I think she did too, she initiated conversation with me again today at 11pm. Do you think this girl is just being friendly or is she actually interested in me? Was this meeting yesterday a "date" or just a friendly meeting, where do I proceed from here. BTW I'm an AFC

I'd say it's key to escalate and to get her emotions flowing. Get her to link you as a person to having extreme fun.

Any cool place you could go to and 'have her come with you'?

Movies. Pier, she's new to this town i go to college in, she just moved in. IDK where else

she's interested...escalate... doing nothing is more worse than doing anything..

stop seeing yourself as a fucking AFC.. this girl isn't seeing your AFC side otherwise she would reject you.

yes ... your not always AFC , and this girl knows it.

get her emotions flowing and deal with your logistics... think of a way to get her to your place or her place.. invite her for a drink at the end of a night. Maybe you have some cool stuff on your room to show her ?

in the beginning of a so called ''date'' i always try to get to girl to my place... i just tell her i forgot to pickup something and drive home. invite her inside .. tell her you are going upstairs ( go to the bedroom or upstairs). this way she can be comfortable with your room and surroundings... it's a less threathening place to go back to.

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First things first, you are what the world sees who you are.

Thinking you're God or AFC, won't change anything unless others too think that way.

Now, you've obviously established a base level of comfort with this girl here and did the right things too, either unintentionally or intentionally. Doesn't matter.

Right now, you need to make your intentions clear to her that YES, you are attracted to her and that you'd like to see her in a more intimate light, as to say.

And as Lodewikjp said, do not hesitate to escalate physically with her. Hesitation is the sign of men who are cowards.

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THIS WAS A DATE!! but it's ok, my first date ever, the girl sat me on her couch and wanted to hook up, and i did not realize it was a date until weeks later.. it will come with experience - knowing that when you hang out with a girl, its a date. but you did well for your first date, and dont worry about it. there will be many more dates with many girls int eh future for you