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I started going to the pool last week and I regret to do it so late because I am typically the only guy there...except maybe for the lifeguard
its mostly moms with kids but couple solo girls were there too, exchanged hi's with one swimming at a lane but thats about it
it seems like chix come there to tan and not for water, so im wondering how I can use that...maybe go up and say "are you afraid of water?" and invite her to go for a swim
That's fragile.. could work or couldn't.. it's a little bit too direct.. you're probably going to creep her out if you just say "Come swim with me" she doesnt even know you.. it's daygame so you must approach in the most indirect way you can..