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PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2011 8:30 pm 
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Hello PUA's.

I hope to get your point of view on something, it's really taking up a lot in my mind lately so I would like to hear what some of you guys think.

I just started at a new school around a week ago, there is a lot of cool people and such, but one girl caught my eye. We started talking pretty qucikly and we do indeed get along very well.

A few days ago it started to get more physical, she touches me lightly on the shoulder everytime she passes me, she sits as close to me as possible, she lays her head on my shoulder etc. I tried to observe her during interactions with other males and she has no physical contact with them.

I'm living in a less-wealthy area with gangs, and her being from a nicer neighborhood I tend to make jokes with her that we should have a fight. She started playing along instantly and now she makes jokes about it, where she would move her face close to mine, intense eye-contact, a huge smile and ask me if I wanna fight. She usually moves away when I start laughing and poke her/grab her hands.

Some dude from class even said he's pretty sure she has a crush on me from the way that she's acting. I would normally say yes she has, but I'm not sure if I should see the physical contact as friendly or flirting.

Any people got some advice for what to look for, what to say to find out if shes into me?

Oh.. The school is throwing a party tomorrow night, and yes.. There will be alcohol! So if you have any plans/ideas on what to do then it would be awesome!

I hope there's some structure in this post, English is not my mother tongue. :)


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Would you like for her to just whip out your dick in the middle of class and start sucking?

Im not sure how many more signs of interest you need to move forward.

It's completely obvious she's likes you a lot, so I'd suggest making a move before she loses interest.

Ask her what she's doing after school.. She'll say " nothing why" and you say " let's go for a walk"

Or where ever you want to do. Just hang out with her outside of the class room


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The party is a perfect opportunity! A warning to begin with: watch your alcohol intake! Stay sober mate, or at least in control, as you don't wanna blow anything just cause you'd had a few too many. The IOIs are all there, its just a matter of pursuing it. Bring some friends to this party, make sure she isn't the "only reason" you're there. But make a move. You will need to soon, or risk moving into the "friend zone". Women respond to confidence, you should be confident or at least fake it.

The last thing I'd say is don't try any pre prepared openers or lines: you already have her interest so try some natural game and situational conversation

All the best mate!

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 25, 2011 2:43 pm 
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Well, eventually you'll have to stop playing these kid games. The whole poking and teasing thing gets old after awhile.

My advice to you, would be to start escalating a bit more towards her, sexually if that's the need of the hour. The more you hesitate, the more harder it will get.

Don't analyze, don't think more than you have it.

She likes you. She's made that very clear. Now, go and get her.

Good luck.

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Thanks for the advice.

She seemed to be ignoring me a little bit today, at least she didn't give me the amount of attention like she used to yesterday or the day before.

I don't get to see her before the party tomorrow night, so hopefully I can make some moves there and show her that I'm interested in her.


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