So I got drunk at the weekend and these two girls took me back to their place,

slept in the bed with one of them but she had a boyfriend and didn't want to do anything... i know.

she split up with her boyfriend and we started flirting like crazy and asked me to come round later that day for movies and a chat so i went round and we did watch a movie and we started doing that stuff where the girl steals from you and you try and get it back just an excuse to touch basically.

So i was doing all this kino and when i left she gave me a hug :/ I so i texted her saying it doesn't look like you're interested and she said

" I like to get to know people before I know if I'm interested in them"

This is kinda strange as she did bring me home the first night of meeting her. Do you think this is some kind of test?

I hadn't spoken to her in 2 days and she stopped texting me from that night.

Is this situation salvageable or have I blown it?

Thanks for your time

Edit: Didn't realize how much profanity I used ha

Why did you ask her if she was interested? You should have just disappeared after you guys hung out. This sounds like you caught one-itis. And, somehow managed to put yourself in the friend zone.

Also, don't get drunk if you're running game. EVER.

Also, wtf man? You slept in the same bed, and she brought you home, but you didn't pull the trigger? You gave HER blue balls. That is IOI man.

However- I have good news. If you can pickup this girl, that means you can pick up lots more and this little world of ours is full of women. Game on sir. Dust it off and go again.

I know the texting thing was a moment of weakness I just got really ( i don't remember the word but worried i did something wrong)

and When i was in the bed with her I did try touching and kissing as stuff but she said her friend would sort me out in the morning.

She's going on holiday and will be gone for about a week I intend to not text her or talk to her ( infact I deleted her number) and I'm going to take her out to a club or something depending on the answers I get here.

I just feel like such an idiot for texting her that, was such a stupid thing to do.

Do you think I should just give up?

PS: Thanks for your response

Yeah- I'd move on. I know "sort out" is a brit term but I am confused with the context, plus, it's 5am over here! It sucks, I've been through the same shit, we all have, why do you think we're in here!

But remember! If you can pull these, you can pull anyone. Find where you went wrong, modify your approach and try again. You're on the right track!

ha well both of them liked me but her friends boyfriend was there at the time and needed to wait until he went to work before she could sleep with me.


The thing is I just have a feeling this situation is salvageable as i Met her on the weekend and the only thing I fucked up on was that text message. but i'll take the advice of a more experienced guy

I wouldn't say I am SUPER experienced and this is just my opinion. The only way to salvage it (if at all possible) is to walk away. If she comes back, grats you salvaged it, if not, fuck it, you're going to meet even hotter women!

Yeah I guess your right man after all plenty of fish in the sea. Thanks for your advice tho it's been really appreciated.

Well, you could have initiated the conversation. Doesn't make you any lesser a man.

Now, the bad thing is you failed to take the opportunities which were presented to you. Yes, I read the reasons but that's just excuses.

The good thing is that she might be nervous, she's not outright in her judgement of "Let's Just Be Friends", on the other hand ,she did say that she likes to know people before getting interested so she was trying to 'know' you.

Just go ahead and have a good time with her. Don't give her too much of a space in life and mind, but don't be one of those "She didn't call me, I won't call her" idiots. If you feel like making calls, make them.

Or think of it as practice. Something to experiment on before the next woman you meet.

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ahh damn I deleted her number so i didn't send anything that would make me sound desperate i've read about guys that become too pushy and just get straight into friendzone damn I hope she calls now ha

thanks for your advice man.