So I'm going to my friends wedding, who's a HB-8, she wants me to meet her fiance's younger sister (HB-9.5 she showed me pics). We're all going out to dinner the night before her wedding, just wanted to get some different views on how I should approach this. The HB-9.5 is a blond swedish girl, and she's around for at most a week, and doesn't know the area or anything. Should I try to meet up before Friday, what do u guys think about the whole situation.

Dude, you're in a good situation.. first of all, you don't have to think about an opener, because your friend is already told the HB that you're a person she should meet.. that acts like DHV towards you and she will present you to her.. so you don't need an opener and you shouldn't having AA at this point.. after she introduces you.. just run normal game. If she's really hot, try putting in some playfull negs to disqualify yourself as a potential suiter.. don't forget the response to a neg must be laughter..try to connect with her on an emotional level so at the end of night you can say something like: Wow I like you a lot, you're a fun person..I think we should definitely meet sometime.. if she agrees with it, take her number and say: Now I promise you nothing but good polite conversation (line used by Mystery many times).. skip the line if you want.. but it will show her that you're a hard man to get and you don't want to talk to her just to get in her pants.. tell me how it will go.. I'm curious to know that I helped you! Good luck!!

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Bean it's good that you're gonna meet his girl and have a chance to talk to her. But there is a big problem. The fact that you are differentiating between a HB 9.5 and an HB 2 shows that you gift a girl by her looks. You put this girl on a pedestal just for her looks. It shouldn't make a difference to you whether she is ugly or not as far as giving her attention. I know it's easy to say but hard to do but you can accomplish this by talking to more and more girls. Your problem comes from lack of options. If you had many available girls to you, you really wouldn't care so much about this girl. I was at one point asking so much questions to myself because I was afraid to lose this ONE GIRL who was an HB9 but now since I talk to so many woman I don't really care if I mess up even with an HB11 because I know I can get another one any time. My advice to you is first change your mindset as I told you before. Then meet up with her IF YOU WANT and make sure you talk to her like you would to anyone else. If she shows you more interest you reward her by acting to her more than a friend. If she behaves bad punish her and show less interest it's really simple. If you follow what I say you'll end up with her soon enough.

-Joe-

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AmazingArt, I gotta say that I pull a lot of girls... I'm just in the rare situation of being set up with a really banging foreign girl, and honestly am not really worried about it. I was just wondering about how everyone else would approach it. If this fails I got back-ups so I'm not gonna be all over her or anything. I agree maybe I am going into it thinking "damn I really want to bang this broad" but like I said it's not gonna make or break me. The biggest problem I've faced with foreign girls is they don't like negs, and I could be wrong, but when I neg them no matter the way I act (smiling or clearly teasing) they sometimes take it the wrong way. My game plan was to go in have a good dinner and then be like I know the city so I can show you around tonight (something along those lines), and I'll be seeing her the next day at the wedding either way. But she's leaving the country soon, so I want to hit it while I can. But by no means am I desperate, but it'd be nice to f-close this one... Let me klnow what you think

Bean it's great to hear that you have success with woman. You misunderstood me I did not imply that your desperate or needy or can't get girls. I was rather saying that you need to change your mindset a little bit. Talk to this girl like you would to a friend. I know it's hard because a girls looks always make a guy look at her different but you got start at one point or another. As far as negs go, not all the girls need to be negged. Negs are only meant to punish a girl if she shows you disinterest. And if she did behave bad and you negged her and she took it the wrong way just don't let that bother you continue with what you were saying. Make believe that you didn't get that she took it the wrong way. Remember your actions and reactions is the decider of how she's going to act. In technicality tell her exactly what you want. Tell her " I know your leaving soon so I wanna go to this and this place with you". Then explain her why she should go "I wanna go there with you because it's an amazing place I haven't been there in a long time and I think you gonna wanna visit it before you leave". Being honest is the most powerful thing in PUA. Many guys lie and make up stories and live their lives in a deceit being depressed because they are not themselves but robots. Just do this flirt with her and escalate and SHE will drag you to her bed. Hope this helps!

-Joe-

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Yea I re-read what you wrote the next day and got it... Anyways I went out with a bunch of the girls who were going to the wedding, and was more into this south american girl, who I brought home that night. I pulled her by talking to her gay friend who fell in love with me and couldn't stop complimenting me, he pretty much told her to fuck me... Obviously the HB I originally wanted was all over me because of it haha. Thanks for the advice guys, appreciated it.