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 Post subject: the boyfriend(?) problem
PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2011 1:32 am 
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OK, so I'm new to the game as a structured thing and since this, I've sometimes been known to over think things. I learned about it last year after accidentally AMOGing someone in class and stealing his prey. The later told me I am a natural gamer and introduced me to this world.

Ive never been good at cold reads, and in high school missed out on a few ops when a girl I liked would tell me "Charm, I crushed on you for the longest but you never took the hints so I figured you didnt care". Ive gotten WAY better at this, but the problem has recently arisen with this girl in class (im a soph at UCI).

So Ive been gaming this girl lightly/subtly as I learned HERE! lol that college gaming is much more social proof than as in the bar. I neg her when appropriate & openly flirt with other girls in class so she fights for my attention (which she does). Im pretty sure she into me because Im always catching her staring as well as the fact that she constantly mirrors me. I got her number, by telling her we should make some bad decisions together sometime, & yest she moved into the chair right next to me..she had her phone in her lap so i sent her a blank text & when she looked at me puzzled i told her i just wanted to see the pleasure on her face when it buzzed. She laughed, called me "bad" and pushed my shoulder (kino right?).

When i noticed a ring (not a diamond) on her finger I asked "oh youre married" to which she immediately switched it to the other hand and was like "hell no" but that night she found me on FB where i saw her thing said she had a boyfriend and shed recently commented on how cute some AFC picture from him on her wall was.

My question is, as i stated im never good at reading signs sometimes, what should I do in this kind of situation? I know Im great gaming in other situations but when I know she has a boyfriend the signals get crossed to where im thinking about whether or not I read every signal shes sent prior the my new knowledge, has been misread...


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 19, 2011 1:07 am 
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Keep going, be clear with your intentions, and be confident. That way there's no chance of any crossed wires, this lemon knows what she wants, you give it to her boss! :D


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 19, 2011 3:55 am 
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Why do you care if she has a bf?

Which girl doesnt have a bf?

Seems like when you noticed she has a bf on Facebook,it puzzled you.

The moment you(the guy)make a big deal about her having a bf,she will then make a big deal of her having a bf,which means you will be rejected or friend zoned.

So mention nothing about her having a bf.

It shouldnt matter,so WTF are you worrying about?

Game her just as you would normally a single girl.

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 Post subject: thanks
PostPosted: Thu Aug 25, 2011 2:25 am 
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thanks alot guys! I took note and the tension's getting even larger on her side. If he cant keep her, its not my problem :D


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