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PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 9:33 pm 
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So I am getting back into game, but frankly I did not have much game to begin with...in fact all my gf's came from online up until now.
I am currently working on my approach anxiety and verbal conversations.

Any criticism welcome

08/22/2011
I got a day off work so I had whole day to approach:
Morning:
went to post office to take care of some things
2x7's...one of em was talking about some guy standing her up. I thought of talking with one that got stood up but pussied out. (note to self: taking too long to cold approach, need to be more spontaneous)
1x6...some girl was standing in a wrong line, I managed to open my mouth and point her where the line is (small step better than none, at least i got my mouth opened)
other...after that I was having some conversations going with postal employees, for warmup and then left.

Noon:
decided to go to the pool
1x7...pool girl at the desk, made eye contact and small talk
1x6...pool girl #2, she was in the pool collecting leaves I said to her 'how's fishing going?' got a nice laugh return :) (was a good spontaneous saying, but didnt take further)
1x7...same girl from the desk, kind of just got outta there saying cya

grocery store
1x7....went to grocery store, one girl was walking towards me I made strong eye so far that even after she passed me, as she was passing me she almost tripped (lol) but I didnt do anything (I guess stalled)
2x6's and 7's, there were 2 2sets but i didn't approach

the mall
went to the mall to get some jeans
other...talked to guy at counter when i was buying jeans for practice, was good convo
1x6...some girl was alone txting and I made a comment as I was walking by, she looked at me with puzzled face as I was walking by...Now that I think about it I think she was stalking me after that because I saw her at another store I went and when I was getting coffee later
1x6...talked to a girl at one of those counters, this is longest convo I had with someone today and was several minutes but convo died down and I left.
1x7...went to get coffee and batista girl asked me how can she help me, she was drinking an iced coffe and I said 'you shouldn't drink on the job' she was surprised then I said I was joking and she laughed...i told her my order and I could tell she got nervous because she messed it up and asked me same question twice...I got my coffee and it ended there (not sure what I could of done to pull coffee girl)
other...there were bunch of other girls in the mall, some i made eye contact with but thats about it (there was also alot of teenagers, what do i expect on monday afternoon bleh)..also made small talk with woman on an elevator

later noon:
library
1x9...as i was parking i saw a 9 walking into the library, as i went in she was standing in line...i stood behind her for a few seconds then pussied out (need to stop thinking and just do it)
other...nothing else in the library, talked to guy at the counter real quick then left

down town
walked in down town area for a bit, didnt approach anyone, talked to sales girl at coffee shop real quick (used her name and made her smile) but thats about it.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2011 1:15 am 
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08/23/2011 Tuesday

Well today was not very progressive, went to the pool (nothing), went to the mall...lotta hot chix, lots of 2 sets but I didnt approach anyone :( felt like i was stepping back and not going anywhere

volunteered at an event after that and spent alot of time talking to people which is good (def good practice and connection with people)

After that I decided to maybe give night game a shot and went to a bar, had a quick convo with 1 of 3set but thats about it, went to another bar and walked out cuz it was all dudes

hard to tell if im stepping forward or back, i spend a lot of time out there but not getting any girl that im actually interested in anywhere


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2011 3:21 am 
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Grip, thanks for the post.

I can completely relate to you here. Night game and day game are as different as well.. Night and day :) I have more luck with night game but my day game is getting better. Just like riding a roller coaster. Someday i'm at a high and someday I'm at a low but at least I'm showing improvement.

What I have done in the past that has helped me with day game is go to a place full of people. Mall, beach, downtown, uptown. Walk around or sit at a coffee hut and just start saying “Happy Friday” or “Happy Wednesday” or whatever day it is to everyone. This is amazing because people will usually smile or laugh and say thank you for this. It makes you feel better and more confident and it makes the people smile.

After you’re in the grove then stack forward with the next line. “isn’t it a gorgeous day out” Person or people will usually stop and say Why yes it is…. BAM now you’re in a conversation.

FTC, NEG, DHV- show them a magic trick and send them on their way. YOU THE MAN.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2011 1:19 pm 
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Grip, thanks for the post.

I can completely relate to you here. Night game and day game are as different as well.. Night and day :) I have more luck with night game but my day game is getting better. Just like riding a roller coaster. Someday i'm at a high and someday I'm at a low but at least I'm showing improvement.

What I have done in the past that has helped me with day game is go to a place full of people. Mall, beach, downtown, uptown. Walk around or sit at a coffee hut and just start saying “Happy Friday” or “Happy Wednesday” or whatever day it is to everyone. This is amazing because people will usually smile or laugh and say thank you for this. It makes you feel better and more confident and it makes the people smile.

After you’re in the grove then stack forward with the next line. “isn’t it a gorgeous day out” Person or people will usually stop and say Why yes it is…. BAM now you’re in a conversation.

FTC, NEG, DHV- show them a magic trick and send them on their way. YOU THE MAN.
Good idea DrCooter, thanks brotha I will try it out next time I am at the mall


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2011 12:11 am 
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So I did not go out sarging since tuesday but did do several social things....i figured I would do another approach based on some suggestions and just be out there to have fun/ also to not miss chances to meet girls that are there.

Anyway past couple days I was out there to have fun, lunch with friend, party, other stuff over the weekend.

today I met a girl after yoga and god her number, she is cute and had piercing eyes...alot of eye contact and i was extremely nervous talking to her but managed to ask her out...yeeey!


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 11:51 pm 
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Update: 9/9/11

HB6 Day1: Went out with the girl on sat, lots of kino but she was very quiet (cant tell if shes shy or wasent into it) Was debating about calling her after she flaked me sunday, ended up sending whats up txt several days later and no reply at all...deleted number today (need to find new prospects)

This past weekend met some PUA's and went sarging (daygame). Approached several women and learned bunch of stuff.
1. - Ive learned that I do not have much AA while sarging with others, I was able to approach several women and start small talk (opened about 5-10 girls)
2. - Ive learned that I come off/dress a bit intimidating and frightening (was wearing all black), I need to dress in bit more light colors and approach more "relaxed"
3. - Ive learned that I am having hard time escalating/progressing in conversations, there have been several times where I've just walked off because I had no idea what to say next
4. - I need to remember to introduce my self at some point, I somehow forget to do that lol
5. - I need to comeup with some excuse plan to talk to girls(indirect approaches) maybe a poll question

overall great practice

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Since then didnt do any sarging, today I went to a store and approached store girl there, then asked her out at the counter...she said she had a BF but it was only chance I had to ask...there were people around so she might of lied


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