Whats is up PUA's or wannabe PUA's (aka AFC) ? All is good? So something has been bugging me in the clubs, which is the weak spot in my gaming. It is Kino escalation. I can get the attention of a girl on the dance floor and then i would approach her but i can't dance WITH a girl. I usually just goof around and dance around her. She accepts me and all and doesn't think i'm a freak or anything but i have a fear of escalating my touch or as a matter of fact just starting to touch her. I just fear she's gonna feel uncomfortable if i do. How can i initiate Kino without being awkward ? What if she's dancing one on one with her girlfriend.!!? Any tips boys (or girls)?

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Be as you wish to seem - Socrates

I relate kino escalation for increasing sexual tension and developing a strong comfort level. The aim is to target her kinesthetic mind.

In the social arena, there are different body parts for conveying different things. I'd like to think of it as a communication. On the least level is a handshake. On the highest level would be eating her out.

Like tapping on the shoulder means I want your attention. Stuff like that.

Awkwardness to me in this scenario would be you touching somewhere and communicating something, but she gets something totally different. The way around that is knowing what communication takes place when you touch so and so.

For the beginning, touching her on the shoulder, forearms - the outer parts is good. Once you go deep in the game, inner thighs, lower back, neck and so on.

Her hand plays an important part if you wanna know if all this is awkward. Try to hold it, if she hold it back, all is good, if not, back off a little.

alright well thank you for the help

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i would say, that you need eye contact, if you get eye contact with her while you both dance, and she holds that eye contact, so which would make you now dancing together.
This is the moment that you want to take your hand out to make her put her hand in yours, and you can pull her close and dance with her as you want
Hope it helped.

else check this out and it should help alot
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PRLEDSA4afo[/youtube]

the video is cool well, my advice would be not to rush or struggle too much, that might put them off. try holding hands, this works magic, you can do a gazillion stuff from there, starting from turns and finishing with guiding her as you like. the thing is, you're the king on the dancefloor, so you have to lead the girl, thats what they expect. as long as you dont do anything weird too soon, its all ok, remember, its dancing, its supposed to be sexual (so maybe its not a particularly good idea to be goofy). good kino is to get close and look deeply into her eyes, this creates a lot of tension hope i helped

Great video Valdemar1...the thing is will a girl always be so acceptant!? I have to say he came in with a goal in mind, an intention..you know what i mean. Theres alot of kino going on, never stopped eye contact and was the alpha male all long. Well alright i got what i need thx guys ill be trying it out and posting soon, cya!

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Be as you wish to seem - Socrates

Great video Valdemar1...the thing is will a girl always be so acceptant!? I have to say he came in with a goal in mind, an intention..you know what i mean. Theres alot of kino going on, never stopped eye contact and was the alpha male all long. Well alright i got what i need thx guys ill be trying it out and posting soon, cya!

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Well i think it will work, as long as you keep your confidence high, i think that if you show a bit lack of confidence while trying to pull this of, it will fail!