In the last few months I've had two 'sure things' that I've blown because I was too afraid to make a move. One was absolutely ridiculous on my part.

Ok so this weekend I met another girl and it's clear that she is attracted to me. I already blew it a little bit (I should've kissed her when I dropped her off- she didn't want to leave my car and was clearly waiting for something to happen). But she still wants to meet up again.

How do I get the courage together to make some kind of move? I am really realizing that you drop into the friend zone quickly if you sit on your hands. Whats an easy inoffensive way to test the waters?

Don't need to test the waters. Most girls are only offended if you PROJECT that they SHOULD be offended by something you're doing. Otherwise, they're more offended by what you DON'T do.

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Like a summer breeze that makes my soul shiver,
One look from you is more precious than gold,
Let's grab some BBQ and go get busy!"

I rarely test the waters, but here are two tricks if you want:

1. From Mystery: As her if she would like to kiss you. If she says no say "I didn't say you could, it just seemed like there was something on your mind." If she says yes, say "come over here" then kiss her. If she says maybe then say "let's find out" and kiss her.

2. This is my own method, that I have tried numerous times: At the end of your set, or when a date is over. You tell her to give you a french goodbye, which is a kiss on both cheeks. Then after the two cheeks stay close to her and with a smile say "and one on the lips". They always do it.

It's blown! I was unable to make a move. I was definitely feeling vibes but I'm sure I must be friendzoned by now. I had a great day with her with some mimimal touching but I couldn't pull the trigger to make a move at the end. Oh well.