sorry if i go on a bit but here right, if anyone follows me u will no i have a girlfriend but i see no problem with hanging with other girls still...a girl i no who i was in friend zone with, I've recently changed n broke out of ( i hate friend zone even with actually friends!! lol ) ..

anyway after a flirty day, she asks me to meet, no problem quite walk in the park near her house all alone, anyway i turn up shes not there give her a few minates then txt, playfully beat u here where r u

response "still at home"
me "yr rubbish well give me a txt when yr here and ill come back" (show im willing to leave i aint waiting for her)
Her " where u going"
me " to drop off a dvd for a mate, SHE is on time lol " (playful ^-^)
her "oh ok well do u want to make it tomorrow instead" ( SHIT TEST IVE NEVER SEEN)
me "nah im busy tomo, ill be back in 5 minates anyway dnt be late this time "( did i respond well what do u think ???)
her "ok i wont lol xxx"

i arrive and still had to wait for her for a few minates but only like 3 this i find reasonable??

Doesn't seem like a "shit test" to me, in any way.

Maybe, she was late for some reason. And if you got riled up in waiting for a few minutes, it speaks volumes about how insecure you feel when you come to women.

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i wasnt riled up made that clear i mentioned playfully that i was going to see someone else who was ontime, as if it was jst another task i had planned for the day she seemed fine with it...

jst never had a girl suggest to meet go so well then state...

shall we just meet tomorrow at last minate :/ left me a little confused so tried to say no wanna meet today without sounding needy :/ lol...

I think you handled it like a boss, I've run into this a few times and come across as needy, I think you just smashed it but now u have to spill the beans, how'd it go? haha

thank you, she arrived and i spent the first few minates txting she said who u txting, i said jst a friend... spent time chilling and walking in the park, i moved to a bench so we could get closer, all going brilliantly well tbh she was sending IOI's...

my car was there, but walked home little bit more personal i think, put my arm out for her (she ignored) FIRST bad point since she arrived...so i crossed the road and continued walking in the direction of her house she followed even thou crossing wasnt really needed..got to hers and locked in on the fence outside hers, said its been a good night, she said yea i moved in gave her a hug moved head back and kissed closed...might have gone further but her brother walked out her front door to put the rubbish out n went oops sorry and ran back in the house lmao ...

i lol'ed and said good night and walked off to which point she called after me saying that was cheeky and smiled...i replied no next time ill be cheeky so stern and turned and walked away...

now the bad news day to nothing no txt no call no email nothing, i havnt tried to contact her but i was exspecting something :/

I don't understand why you replied the way you did. She was supposed to be on the location at a certain given time - and instead she was sitting at home when you arrived?

You treated her rude behavior as if you didn't care - which we both know you DID care. She knows it too. And she knows you're not man enough to stand up for her behavior, you clearly proved it to her.

"When will you be here then? We said 7pm"

^There's an example of how I would handle it. If you don't take shit from your guy friends, you shouldn't take shit from anyone.

Man up.