So basically im trying to game this girl, but its hard to calibrate on where i am with her. When shes sober i feel a little bit of tension, but a few days ago when we went to the movies she grabbed my hand and we were just holding hands. But when shes tipsy or drunk or something, shes then more touchy and clingy. I'm in the areas of a3-c1 with her. And im not sure what to do.

Forget the a3-c1 nonsense, hang out with her when she's a little drunk a make a damn move!

Haha! I would, but i would really rather see how it would be if i just gamed her sober.

Honestly, just game her like you would do even when she's drunk, the reason why she's more touchy is because she might be a typical person that thinks alot, and when you drink, alot of those aspects seem to get shut down (trust me, experienced enough with that), guess why people that are really drunk, dont care if they do funny stuff, whilst sober, they'd probably be like.. what the F.

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Why?

The tension from when she is sober may be some mild buyer's remorse or guilt for acting foolish while drunk. Why? I don't know, sometimes women and their emotions seem foolish when compared to the logic of men.

If you are looking for something serious with a girl this may be a problem, but if you just want the sex then make a move next time she is drunk.

Many a great relationship has been launched when a little alcohol eased the inhibitions enough for two people to actually act on their mutual attraction.

i actually asked a girl i knew why she was like this similar thing,

she came back at me with this....she likes you she does, she grabs yr hand in public cause its public its friendly place she can get away with it, shes more touchy when she is drunk cause she can use it as an excuse, SHE DOESNT NO IF YOU LIKE HER so she will giv you interest when theres an excuse to just incase u dont like her she is protecting herself...

make a god dam MOVE BOY !!!! next time get touchy with her first, and go for the kill mate!!! WHILE SHE IS SOBER u dont want I WAS DRUNK on your head!!!

Well, ive been texting her lately and it seems like where getting somewhere. I dont see her alot, and to be honest i dont even know what stage i clearly am on. But she did say shes mostly home alone all the time. How would i ask her if i can come over without being all awkward?

In vino veritas, man. "In wine, there is truth." Unless she's getting blind drunk to the point where she would dry hump Regis Philbin if he walked in, you can pretty much count on her tipsy physical contact being interest. Escalate!

To address your recent question, is there a logistical reason you need to go to her house? Why not invite her to yours? Many community gurus and my own experience with women dictate that the first move should always happen in your domain; not hers.

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