right so, i can get oneitis, easily it seems. well actually i dont know. there's a girl ive known for three years and got into the freindzone. since then we have jsut been freinds. ive been doing a total load of self improvment latley with the stylelife challenge and been getting laid recently.

last week me and the 3 year freindship girl end up sleeping together. she told me before if she did sleep with me then it is just sex. ok!!, i thought. that's cool im tottally getting laid tonight. she's totally hot aswell.

so yeah, im obsessing over her and not showing it btw. just playing it cool. we are watching a film tomorrow at the cinema and ive planned to go to the pub and see freinds afterwards with her.

the way i feel is totally oneitits and i dont like it as it's not putting me into this sexy mind shape i need to just chill out and have a good time. anyone help me. give me a few mind sets i can get myself into and reverse it? cheers much appreciated.

a bit of aditionaly information. i do care about her alot. i feel that we could go so much further but i just dont want this intense feeling about it. ide much rather like to control this feeling rather than let it control my brain. it makes me feel weak.

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Honestly the best cure for oneitis is to game several other women. In order to change your mindset about hanging out with her next time when around other people; go in with the attitude that it doesn't matter at all if she is there or not. You are going out to have a good time and have fun, being with her is just coincidence. The woman does not make your night, you make your own night and then maybe you just might make hers too.