I got a kiss close and a phone number the other night from a HB8 who is a friend of a friend. Her uncle died and had the viewing yesterday and the funeral today. I really want to call her but I am not sure if I should give her a small freeze out to let the situation pass or not because it may be hard to push-pull with such a depressing SPAM around her right now. Any ideas or advice fellas? Thanks a ton.

Call her. Offer your condolences.

If you can get a meeting, even better. Offer support to her in the difficult time. But, don't start behaving like one of her friends.

Just be there for a short while, say what you have to say and then, leave.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

this as odd as it may sound can work to yr advantage....

yea agree with don, offer condolences no need to be friendly u can still play just be very SLOW SLOWER THAN DAY GAME PLAY....ok and if u can get to a point things might happen this is where is can work to yr advantage

get her to yours sit down chat, make a move...then PULL AWAY

"sorry i feel it wouldnt be right yr not yourself" this is u shit testing her if she says its ok and keeps going yr guilt free keep going...if she says no yr right says its ok hold her take her to yr bed n jst lie there with her nose to nose maybe a little peck jst to keep the flame there...she will then make the move herself when she wants it which if u made it to the bed she does....

warning, there is a bad outcome to this, she could in an extreme case flip out and go u bring me here u lead me on and then shoot me down when im already low etc....however if u game well till this point it shouldnt happen...

Death or a near death experience is a powerful aphrodisiac, really ramps up a womens reproductive drive to silly levels.