There are lots of things we don't love, but do anyway because we want to please our partners. Many women will give bjs even if they don't love it, but not if you somehow planted the thought in her head that she's your "bitch" then they may start hating it.

Not saying that's what you did, but if I know women, the thing they hate most about sex is feeling cheap. It's possible somewhere along the line of her giving you a bj, she felt insulted or disconnected and now associates the bj with negativity.

Talking might get you somewhere, but women prefer you to just read their minds. Sound familiar? I think you might want to research a new move for her. Something that'll blow her mind. Something worth... rewarding ;). Or you could try to create a situation in which she would want to seduce YOU -like not giving in until she's tried EVERYTHING. Unless she's lazy cause then you're just shit outta luck.

Sorry if someone has already said this cause i didnt read all the replies...

But how did u even hit this point, ive seen it happen to standard people at some point or another u have managed to DLV so bad she thinks she can control u in the bed room, u gotta get back up on her, make her relise she is lucky to have you and she will do what it takes to keep you...

Secondly i would DEFO no eat HER out, who cares if she likes...the rule is simple if SHE GIVES , she can take...if YOU give and SHE takes NO GOOD...

thirdly if there really physically something wrong with her even after all these things, try something else flavoured condoms or lube mix it up little body chocolate, always gets a womens tounge working ....

i've been with two girls who were amazingly skilled at sucking cock. *shivers*

the rest...horrible.

i'm fairly convinced that most women don't really give a damn about pleasing men.

they think granting access to their glorious fuckhole should be MORE than enough.

am i right?

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Kind of, some women use sex to manipulate...

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Didnt ready any reply posts but for me this is no a brainer.

She lets you eat her pussy?

You still have sex with her?

But she doesnt go down on you?

Why? attraction is gone!

Do you really believe if she dump you and start dating again with this amazing guy, do you really think she wont do the best bjs ever just to please him?

But to be fair we are all humans and we have needs womens also. So while she doesnt find anyone better, she has to satisfied her biological needs.

But she doesnt have to please you in the process.

My advice is go find another girl, she is clearing looking for some one new to Bj them to death

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

I'm assuming that circumcision is an issue for women in Miami. Which means its likely an issue as well here in Daytona.

hmm, what if she never actually liked blowjobs to begin with, but now she just feels less of a need to please you to keep you around cause she gets nothing / loses nothing by not doing something she doesn't want to do and has some sense of security now that maybe there is some more comfort in the relationship (she feels her investment is safe)

it's basically a win situation for her to not do it, since she doesn't like it, and women cook up all kinds of magical excuses and lies for why they do or do not do things, half of what comes out of their mouths is usually some fairytail land tralala

here are some thoughts,

how important are blowjobs to you?

do you enjoy going down on her? why give her head, when she's not giving you head?

why can't she explain why she doesn't like it, does she have a mental disability or something? letting a girl get away with, I don't know why seems stupid, this shit just leads to a slippery slope of ''I'm not gonna fuck you, I donno why'', ''I tried to sleep with your buddy, I donno why'', she knows why, if she didn't she would be either a crazy person or a retard, she's just not at liberty to spit out the real reason and expects you just know all the crazy stuff that goes on in her head

really gotta just set up those boundries and fucking stick to them, she crosses the line, she walks the plank

but if you're playing off the ''this is no big deal'' card, then it better actually be no big deal or you're just going to end up doing some passive agressive shit, or end up with a whole bunch of problems that you don't want

if blowjobs are a nessesity for you, and you aren't getting them, might as well try to solve that problem, and if it can't be solved, dump her