I have a girlfriend long term relationship now loving it...

however when talking to girls her mates that she introduces me too etc, i still find myself gaming and still notice the IOI's coming from all over the place...

My questions, is it wrong to continue, ive cut out ALL KINO GAME, i DONT CLOSE anymore kiss, or even number....and yet within a good set i spot the IOI's coming at me within around 30seconds of talking and rolling off a little, i wanna have fun but dnt want to lead girls on and dnt want to loose mine...

anyone got any advice

I know what I'm about to say is an oversimplification. I'm not making light of the situation, and I understand it. I've been there, we've probably all been there.

It's like your eyes have been opened. You were walking down a road, and before, it looked like there was only the one path you were walking. Then BAM you can see, and you discover thee are 20 roads, and the one you're on (AFC) isn't so great. So you pick a different road, and become a PUA. But you still see the 19 other roads. You're aware, now of everything that you weren't before. All the same, you're on this one road, so you can keep walking on this one.

There's nothing wrong with noticing IOIs. There's nothing wrong with being attractive to other women. It will make yours appreciate you that much more. And I personally don't think there's anything wrong with you lightly flirting with them either, as long as you don't as you say "lead them on".

You're doing fine. You're worried that since you see other roads that the roads may force you onto their path. Not so. You control your feet, control yourself, so you're good. Make sense?

READ THE LOUNGE RULES!
Seriously, this doesn't belong in here, general questions....