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PostPosted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 4:18 pm 
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Hey guys,

Well the situation is , my friend just broke up and well i need to get his ex into my life now.
now this girl and i are just basic friends sorta. we've met a couple of times(only with others,never alone) and we know a bit about each other .

I've been chatting it up on fb , have her number but have'nt started texting yet.
and she is also a very friendly person, and she does'nt have a problem with us meeting up.
but the thing i'm worried about is that she is only going to see me as i friend, so how do i make my intentions clear to her.....

I'm just a bit confused right now as what to talk/use on her, kino, sexual jokes/refrences....should i ask her out yet or do some phone game?


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 21, 2011 7:51 pm 
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She's only gonna see you as a friend if you lead it down that road.

Speak of things that friends dont.

If you talk about her bf and become her theraist,she's gonna befriend you(if she doesnt see U as a friend already).

Dont become her relationship therapist.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 4:21 am 
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Alright i think i know a few things now searching through the forums.....

the only thing is do i do some text gaming first or take her out already.....

and could anyone just give me a brief as what to talk to her to build up rapport/attraction..

i have the general idea of what to talk to ...but a few examples would really help.


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I'd known my current LTR for almost a whole year before I pulled her. It is possible. However...even when I didn't really want to get with her(that's why it took this long, not because I was a wussy, I just needed freedom after my last breakup), I acted sexual towards girls, and especially to her. This kept me way away from the friend zone and for my very first call she just came to me and I fucked her hard.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 8:11 am 
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So how does you friend feel about you trying to bang his ex? And what was the story behind the break up?


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 8:23 am 
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Hmm..well my friend and her not on speaking terms anymore....he got pissed after the break-up, she was just bored with him generally(he did'nt really do anything for her , took for granted).

I have'nt really told him about any of this, we are not that close anyway.

So i've decided that i'm gonna text her for a few days, flirting and sexual stuff and then i'm going to ask her out .......

I feel this is going to be a long process as she is friendly towards most of the people she meets(you know the extra friendly girls).

So what do you guys think?...am i taking the right path


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 11:07 am 
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small note i didnt see people had picked up on yet...

u met her through your mate that she just finished...she didnt like him and he likes you so you have started on a low value possion ...this has to be played two ways...

one you are your own person show a life you have away from him so she doesnt think she is gunna bump into her EX everytime she is out with you...

secondly look out if she starts talking about her EX bf she is using you to get back at him, ives seen it happen... otherwise all the above is good idea


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Do everything your friend didn't. But not as a "friend", as a potential "boyfriend".

She'll start seeing you that way.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 4:28 pm 
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Thanks for all the input guys....i'll keep on updating the situation .....hopefully it goes my way!!!


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Wow-a moderator spamming(lol)?

Not ot hijacc anyone's post,but Ryan,Im wondering if you're Sasha.

Just yesterday I relied to someone's post asking who's the best pua out of London currently.

I said London's Sasha.

Anyway,cool blog.I've been checing it out for months now.

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