| When there is loud music, some clubs have really loud music, is really hard to talk, especially to the whole group. So, you have to go for the target right away, soon as possible. But, since is loud, is really easy to start kino, this is a huge advantage of a loud night club.
Here is a step by step break down, is focus on body language.
1. Open, keep opener short. Good eye contact is also important along with open body language. A opener i use is "You seem fun, Are you fun?"
2. When they respond, act like you can't hear them.
3. Then grab your target by the lower back, pull her in when she talks, let her go when she is done talking. When you talk, project. Repeat this. (i got girls asking me to make out with them on couple of occasion doing this). This is a great non verbal push/pull.
4. Couple of minutes of talking, ask her to dance. Dance for while, and take her to the bar and grab couple of drinks. (I actually pay for the drinks here).
5. Go somewhere quite and get into comfort and qualification. Smoking areas are usually quite, if not, you can always find someplace and repeat 3. But as you built more comfort, you can do less pull and push and just hold her.
Couple of things to keep in mind.
-Good hygeine is important. Good cologne, good breath, and your clothes must smell nice.
-if is a 2 set, someone has to occupy the target. If is 3 or more, you can do it without winging.
-If you go for SNL, regardless how big or small the set is, someone has to win over
the main girl, and make her wanting to come back. If the main girl is your target, makes your. For me, we never planed out SNL's, it just happened. Me and my wings game is to number close and invite girls out.
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