PLEASE GUYS S.O.S.!!! I need to save this relationship!!! I read her facebook again:S :S

I've got some really great advice from you guys the last time, here is an
UPDATE:

2 months ago, as some of you adviced I dumped her (I told her that I read facebook conversations where she agreed to sleep with a guy). The same night she started texting me things like she never cheated on me / she is totally in love with me / pls forgive me. She told me that she was just teasing that guy and having a laugh. Anyway I beleived her and went back together again. This break up really made the whole raltionship fantastic for a while and her being super committed. She broke contact with all her ex-es, etc.

Since than, we went to holiday togeher. She's always worried about me meeting other girls or my ex, when I go out without her she calls/text me like every 2 hours. But she's never told me that she loves ever since (she doesn't even says thing like 'I miss you')

She was away for 10 days (works in another city for this time), came home yesterday.

The worst thing is that I'm in love with this girl :S Sex has been getting less and less frequent over the last 1 month. She never introduced me to any of her friends.

Now today I hacked into her facebook... There were these conversations from today... She agreed to date with 1 guy. She was telling one of her best friends that she is meeting her ex to cheat on me this Saturday (she lied to me that she is meeting some of her friends). She set her facebook so that I could see has as if we were in a relationship but others don't. She admitted to several ppl that our relationship is coming to an end soon...

What should I do?? Please help!!! How do I save this? Please help? If you advise me to dump her, how should I so this (in order to get her back later)??

I'll start this by saying that she's disrespecting you. It's probably best to drop her.

Alternatively, I think it's really important to make a girl feel like you're going somewhere. If she's unsure about you, it's probably not an attraction or comfort thing, she's unsure that you're the kind of guy she wants to be with for an extended period of time. Present yourself as someone that has goals and aspirations, and prioritize those over her. Your personal success is your primary goal. She'll want to come along for the ride.

Hold on. Are you serious? Dump the FUCK out of this girl. You got mad at her for something on her facebook then she's screwing around on facebook again?? Have some self respect dude!

You need to cut all contact with this girl and move on. This has gotten out of control, and out of your hands at this point.

Never contact her again.

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By now I've got pretty drunk :S and I've read through all her facebook conversations :S the facts are that over the 4 months she was reagularly cheating on me with 1 guy. She told him that sex was better with him than with me. She also cheated on me with 2 other ppl. On Saturday, she is going to secretly meet her ex who she is still in love with... She is about to dump me sooner or later.

She does not know that I have these information.... What now?? Any good tips for a great break up? Humiliate her? Leave a door open for some goodbye sex?

That. Do exactly that.

Cut your losses with some humility and dignity and don't sweat it. It was a very "iffy" situation from the start and realistically hasn't lasted all that long. Give it a bit of time, have confidence that you got with a hot woman, and know there will be others.

The best thing you can do is the instantly and permanently go no contact. That means forever. That means ignore her. That means never break silence with her. You will not be able to humiliate this person, because she doesn't give 2 cents as to what you think, and she is neither conscientious enough nor honorable enough to not blatanly and repeatedly cheat on you.

She does not care. Nothing you do or say from this point on will make any difference.

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Ok, so yesterday I dumped this whore. She wasn't only an attention whore but also a real whore. You guys were right the whole time, she was broken material, and I had an abundance mindset. So I sent her this text yesterday (making her think that someone told me about her secrets): "This is over. I know everything. Say thanks to the person that told me about it. I will send you all your stuff by post in a box."

The fucking thing is that it didn't have any effect on her. She doesn't seem to care. She keeps posting happy videos on facebook, keeps posting happy status updates. The only reaction was that she texted me back today "Who's the one that told you these?" I won't reply.

How could I turn her into a fuck buddy later on when all my feelings for her are gone?

Congrats on moving on.
Dude, just forget her completely.

+1.

In a few weeks from now, if you aren't feeling better about the situation, hit us back if you still feel this way. It is natural to want this right now, but that desire should fade with time.

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UPDATE:

She deleted me on facebook a few days ago, however I still can see all her stuff and wall but she cannot see anything on my profile (differnet privacy settings) as far as I know.

Ever since she's been sending me(?) these signals, trying hard to make me(?) feel jealous:
-new, extremely sexy profile picture in a bikini
-status updates about going to parties
-she comments on every guys photos like "nice muscles", "cute", "2 sexy guys in this photo, what else would I need?"
-she liked my friends youtube trance music video titled "out of your love", even tho she always hated trance music (I'm a big fan tho)

Than yesterday she sent me this text message "Hi, I just need to know if you can send me my stuff by 1st September. I'm really going to be needing them for work so if you cannot send me them I can come over to your place and pick them up."
Than she tried to call twice which I ingored. Later that night I texted her back "ok, I will figure out when you can come over". She replied "thx thx".

My goal is to keep her in rotation, keep her as a fuck buddy. Any suggestions about having her come over? (other than get over her pls). Should I act cold as ice? Should I tell her in advance that she could sleep here if she wanted to? Should I mention her cheating on me? Or should I act like as if I wanted to break all contact with her? Should I tell her that we should forget ablout the bad things (like the whole relationship thing) and keep doing the good things (sex)?

Don't worry, now I'm sure I can get over her, thanks to you guys. Also I already have a date fixed for Friday, that girl is DTF. But I could really use some advice on how to keep this HB9.5 as a fuck buddy.

NO. She is NOT sending you signals. I've had this same problem before. NONE OF THOSE ARE SIGNALS. NONE. NONE.

She has no interest in you. It will NEVER work out again. EVER. DROP IT. NOW. DROP IT.

Give her stuff back, focus 100% on other girls. DROP IT. NOW.