How far do you go...



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 31 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » PUA Lounge




Author Message
 Post subject: How far do you go...
PostPosted: Tue Aug 16, 2011 12:22 am 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader

Joined: Tue May 10, 2011 5:53 pm
Posts: 2152
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
To introduce yourself to a woman? I ask because I had a funny moment today. I was at the local mall getting a bite to eat after work, and on my way up the escalator to the exit where my car was I noticed a girl looking my way on the lower floor. There was a few seconds of eye contact and I thought hell, I'll go for it. I took the down escalator immediately to see if she was still nearby or had ducked into one of the nearby shops. She probably just left as well, but I certainly woulda sped up my walk a bit to say hi and flat out say I had to loop back around to introduce myself. I wasn't gonna knock over the 70 year old couple behind me to run back down the escalator, but I had nothing else to do at that moment.

So it got me to thinking of this question, how much effort/distance would you go if a girl caught your eye?


Top
   
 Post subject: Re: How far do you go...
PostPosted: Tue Aug 16, 2011 12:50 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Mon Aug 15, 2011 3:52 am
Posts: 23
Quote:
To introduce yourself to a woman? I ask because I had a funny moment today. I was at the local mall getting a bite to eat after work, and on my way up the escalator to the exit where my car was I noticed a girl looking my way on the lower floor. There was a few seconds of eye contact and I thought hell, I'll go for it. I took the down escalator immediately to see if she was still nearby or had ducked into one of the nearby shops. She probably just left as well, but I certainly woulda sped up my walk a bit to say hi and flat out say I had to loop back around to introduce myself. I wasn't gonna knock over the 70 year old couple behind me to run back down the escalator, but I had nothing else to do at that moment.

So it got me to thinking of this question, how much effort/distance would you go if a girl caught your eye?
the real question should be how far out of her way should she have to come and see you?? your king shit .. :P 8)

_________________
i failed the simple math question to sign up for this forum... 4 + 2 = ??? wtf as if im meant to know that shit..


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 1:42 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot

Joined: Wed Jul 22, 2009 5:31 am
Posts: 349
A girl will almost never approach you. Thats why they stare at you or look at you for long periods of time. Though some people may think that it goes against "PUA LAWS" to go out of your way to introduce yourself to a girl. But... if she's giving you an open door, you better take it. She might have opened that door to many guys and most were to afraid to approach her, so if you go, you have a pretty good chance, unless you screw it up. If she looks at you and/or smiles, you already have 50% of the game which is that you appealed to her physically. Now its up to you to not mess the other 50%.
Almost 90% of men are afraid to talk to a girl, and we've all been there, and got through it which is what separates us from the rest, so you talking to her, is a win situation.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Tue Aug 23, 2011 12:29 am 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader

Joined: Tue May 10, 2011 5:53 pm
Posts: 2152
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
It is kind of an interesting contradiction. So much fuss is made about making sure you don't seem needy, demonstrating disinterest, believing you are the prize. To an extent its certainly true, but I do believe that to get the ball rolling at the end of the day, nine times outta ten, you have to go out of your way to open. I mean hell, if that girl was still there when I went down the escalator who knows what woulda happened? Better to go for it and fail than to not bother because you worry you'll look less cool.


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 4 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link