| Greetings.
So I've been going out with this girl (she's 17, i'm 25) for almost a month now and things are going alright. Calls me every 2 hours and we talk literally for 1-1 1/2 hours, texts me in between, her best friend told me i'm all she thinks about every second of the day, etc. She lives 30 mins away in a nearby very small town, and this is where the problem stems from. I just can't get her to come see me enough. We get together about 2, maybe 3 times a week at best, and that's only when she has some shit to do in my town. Whenever i ask her to come see me she's like "we'll see" and "i don't know about tomorrow, i have to clean up the house" and evasive shit, which is kind of annoying.
She's only had 2 boyfriends ever, and her longest relationship lasted like 2 months, so i'm thinking she's also a virgin. Her last boyfriend dumped her because she wouldn't sleep with him after like 2 months, she said she didn't trust him enough and that the guy was dodgy. And that he called her immature, which she really is at times. After that he told her that he made a bet with a buddy of his that he'd sleep with her in 3 months time, and she told me that this kind of traumatised her. I told her that i won't pressure her about sex and stuff, and i'm really not.
Up until about 1 week ago she wouldn't even let me touch her breasts, although now i have free access to all of her body ( we haven't had any kind of sex though), so things are slowly escalating.
Here's the thing. I've been working around the clock these last 2 weeks without a day off. This Sunday (today) was supposed to be my day off so i asked her to come to this amusement park whatever with swimming pools and stuff we have in our town, enjoy the sun. She told me she'd come, i was excited and all. I call her last night to ask her what time she'll be here, then she drops the bomb that she doesn't really have money and that she doesn't think she'll make it. I told her i'll pay the entry fee and that she doesn't have to worry about it (she's very well mannered about paying, always offers to pay the drinks or taxi or w/e so she's not a gold digger) and she agreed to come.
So today i'm call her and she's says her parents won't let her come, doesn't really give me a proper answer and seems evasive. I got pissed so i told her goodbye, and she said if it's ok if she'll call me later (she was asking for my permission, not that she had to hang up).
I'm pretty pissed about all of this dodging and evading, i told her a couple of times before that a relationship isn't built on the phone but in person, eye to eye, hand in hand. She said she's really trying to see me more but that was that. I don't know what to do here: i don't think it's her parents being uptight and not letting come see me, because although i haven't met them in person they didn't come off as being so strict from what she's been telling me about them. I think it's more the fact that she's scared of being intimate with me, although she seemed to enjoy the pussy and nipple/breast rubbing she's been getting so i don't know about that. Also it's not that she doesn't enjoy being face to face with me, we have great chemistry and we laugh a lot, have lots of fun. It's just that i can't seem to get her out of that fucking village.
1. How can i get her to come see me more, taking into account the fact that she - at least on paper - seems in love with me ? Also, if it's really her parents, how do i get around that ?
2. Should i let her know that she's annoyed the fuck out of me with this Sunday thing or is it better to let it slide by ? (she knows i'm upset about it)
Thanks.
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