So i met this girl about 2 years back. And the first time I talked to her for longer than 5 minutes we hit it off really really well. I don't know what it was about that day but something clicked between us and she asked ME for my phone number. I see this girl nearly every day and looking back I thought that I really shoulda asked her out then, little did i know she had a boyfriend at the time... Anyway. Things were good between us for a while. Then a couple months later she compleatly changed. Not giving me signals that she liked me at all. I asked her out thinking that she didnt think i was into her and she basically said that she didnt want to give me the wrong idea. Since then weve become pretty good comfortable friends. The problem is that i still like this girl. My instincts tell me to give it up. But she is one of the most beautiful and fun girls ive ever been around. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas for rekindling a "spark"/ making a compleatly new impression on this girl one last time before i give up and go after other chicks. Is it even worth it? Any ideas would be appreciated thanks.

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Life's a bitch then you die, that's why we get high, cause you never know when your gonna go.

You got this the wrong way around, go after other chicks FIRST. You've been friendzoned, there heaps of threads about how to get out of the friendzone on these boards.

By the sounds of it you had a chance in the first month or so, but you didn't pull the trigger which is a classic rookie mistake, you gotta pull the trigger as soon as that window of opportunity is open. Now what you have to do is create a new window.

Also next time a girl says she has a boyfriend don't let it stop you, I've been with loads of girls who had boyfriends before, to some chicks it means jack-shit. The irony of this though is it's not a bad way to screen possible future LTR's, if she cheats on her boyfriend with you, probably means she'd make a bad girlfriend.

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thanks bro. Ill look into getting out of the friendzone.

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Life's a bitch then you die, that's why we get high, cause you never know when your gonna go.

i did this myself, girl gave me signal loads of them and at the time i was too young n dum to spot them and after about a two week period they loose interest they wont try forever so we ended up best friends to the point of what i call (gay friend zone) she would get changed in front of me, she could walk around in her underwear and it meant nothing "like i was gay"...

i aventually got a break when one night we got talking bout a guy who was confusing her she thought they liked each other but he hadnt made a move, and she looked at me and said " ive been here before and ended up as best mates with the guy cause he didnt feel the same" at which point i wiped the single tear from her cheek and told her " ive always liked u" and i kissed her and we started seeing each other for bout 4 months, when it turned out i actually prefered us as mates and so did she (these things happen)

i got lucky these chances wont happen for everyone, u gotta get out there make her relise that, u are a flirty guy get some other women in yr life and start ditching her for them...and when someone is such a good friend u can be blunt when the fay comes she says " why u always leaving me to hang with other girls " u can say IF THE TIME IS RIGHT..."because being around u i have to stop myself from kissing u 24/7 being around them i dnt have that fear" and walk away... get the thought back in her head of shit!! HES A GUY!!! after all, and the game starts again but this time REMEMBER TO PULL THE TRIGGER and make a move on her when the time comes dnt let it pass getting out the friend zone once is FUCKING HARD, getting out twice impossible!!!!